Ridiculous lies

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Ridiculous lies
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Sat, 12-19-2009 - 12:33pm
I was reading through some posts and this just came to me. I would like to know what some of the ludicrous lies are that your AP's have told in order to get out of something, be it going out or when they have been suspected of something? This ought to be very entertaining. Come on people. Surely someone has something to say.


Edited 12/22/2009 9:56 pm ET by nonchalant345

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Tue, 12-22-2009 - 9:57pm
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Wed, 12-23-2009 - 9:01pm

I have been busy holiday shopping and baking the last few days, so haven't been around to post much.

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Thu, 12-24-2009 - 5:21am
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Sun, 12-27-2009 - 5:19pm
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Edited 12/27/2009 5:24 pm ET by nonchalant345
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Sun, 12-27-2009 - 5:24pm
Maybe it's Football. Mine is into that really big. Or could be a gf. Hmmm, those are some good ones, you have, but sad at the same time, that he lied to you. I have heard a lot how busy he is, but suddenly things changed and I get to see him every week. He is still doing the same job and his life is still the same. He just wasn't making an effort to see me. It's all good now. But I was told one night he was busy doing something around the house and I couldn't come over, then later I was invited over, only to see that he didn't even do what he was supposed to have been doing. Silly things like that. I am trying to think of more. It's just so funny the things they come up with, when all they have to do is be honest. Unless they are sneaking around with someone new. I would really wonder about your AP and yes, you should get rid of him. Seems so rude, to me, and way too mysterious. You deserve better.


Edited 12/27/2009 5:26 pm ET by nonchalant345
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Mon, 12-28-2009 - 4:17am

Ok, I want to scream right now because of a stupid lie, so thought I'd add it here.

He's getting back into town early evening tomorrow from visiting family. Two nites ago we talked on the phone and he wanted to know if I could pick him up. I asked what time he would be getting in and he kept saying he wasn't sure/didn't know/couldn't remember. (*I* knew the time from prev seeing his itinerary). I said, I will be working part of the day, but have a flexible schedule. I said I would likely be going in later in the day rather than early morning because I might be going out for a drink with my best friend the nite before and wouldn't want to get up super early if I was going to be up late-ish.

Well, today, I talked to him and asked what time he was getting in. He proceeds to tell me he's "now" getting in late evening and changed his ticket from a flight arriving early afternoon because I was working. WTH? He did not change his ticket! The time he told me he's "now" getting in is when his flight originally was. So he's making me think he changed his ticket for or because of me...like that was doing me a favor or something?! It sounded like a mini-guilt trip or like he was punishing me in some way (for possibly going out late or going to work late and not being available to pick him up sooner) IDK. I HATE games like that. It's manipulative and borderline abusive when done repeatedly.

I'm so irritated. I'm sure once I do pick him up, he'll want to eat, have S, and will then want me to drop him off at his place (oh joy) making up some excuse why he can't spend the nite. This is yet another sign/validation that I need to end this soon. The pain and living with lies is getting insane.

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Mon, 12-28-2009 - 9:52am
My last AP neglected to tell me his W was pregnant and he made his job seem more than it was (which was sad because what he did was fine! Lied and told me he had a son when he also had a daughter. When he said kids one day I said "Kids as in plural?" and he told me he didnt mention her because she hates him. She was 3 yrs old. He also lied about his age at first. Most guys really do suck don't they? Why do we bother?
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Thu, 12-31-2009 - 7:29pm
I have to laugh, not at your anger, but at their belief that we are so naive. We do our research and they ought to know that. Not that we are all about snooping but we have our instincts. He really thinks he pulled on over on you, doesn't he? Men! Ha ha
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Thu, 12-31-2009 - 7:31pm
Now, that is totally crazy! Not even something to lie about. That's just stupid. My H tells lies like that all the time. Like he turned off a light or something stupid like that and I can go right in there and see that it's on. I think they must have done that their whole lives or something. Ridiculous.
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Thu, 12-31-2009 - 8:39pm

Okay I got one. This is probably the only lie I caught my xap in. When we met he told me that he had not had sex with his GF in 6 months. A year later after the A was over we got on the subject of his relationship with his GF and he said it had been a year since he was with his GF in a physical way.....ummmm? Okay, those numbers don't add up, and I told him as much, he responded with...."well I don't know, I'm not good with dates"...lol. Maybe its me, but I think the one thing that men can remember is the last time they had sex with the person they live with and suppose to love?

And what makes it sadder is that we had conversations before about this and I told him on many occasions that I did not care if he had sex with his GF, told him to work on his realtionship try to reconnect.....blah blah blah...Nope he assured me that they don't have sex, she's not interested.

Now, why he thinks that I believed for a minute that he didn't have sex with his GF is beyond me? Maybe it wasn't great wonderful earth shattering sex, but I'm almost sure he was getting something.

*I'm happy to report ...I have not caught my current AP in any lies yet*.

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