The road is long

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Registered: 12-28-2009
The road is long
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Sat, 03-13-2010 - 12:05pm

With many a winding turn.


If you'll recall, my AP went through a nightmare situation (all of which he brought directly upon himself) when he flew off the handle and acted crazy when he was very drunk on Tuesday night. He was arrested for drunken disorderly among other attendant charges, and he is going through a tough time right now. His GF understandably kicked him out and he has been staying with his dad.


He joked to me yesterday that all that's happened since this thing happened is a lot of heart to heart talks with everyone. He has not gone back to live with his GF, but the two of them have had coffee one night and dinner another night to talk about what is going on with everything and their R. According to him, she opened the door of trying to work things out but he told her that he thought they'd be better off leaving things the way they are right now since the R was already doing poorly before this incident. He was honest with me; he told me that he wouldn't say that they've broken up, but he is not sure if reconciliation with her is what he wants or not and right now he's just letting their R hang in limbo while he sorts out all of these other issues. He told me that he knows that's not really fair to me and would understand if I

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Registered: 09-07-2009
Mon, 03-15-2010 - 4:46pm

He is lucky to have you in his life if even as a friend. Hopefully things will go better for him now and he will make the necessary changes to be a healthier person.

Take Care of yourself.