ROFLMAO, last Friday!!!!!

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ROFLMAO, last Friday!!!!!
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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 12:17pm
Well, as most of you know I went to see the D attorney last Friday! Ok, now here's the kicker! I thought that since we have been married for 12 years that I was only entitled to alimony for 6 years. Well, it seems that not only do I have a good chance of getting my house but because of my state laws, He has to pay me alimony until I die or remarry:):):):) Hopefully, I live a very long life and I don't plan on ever marring again!!!! Hey, I guess it is true what's goes around comes around! I've put up with his crap for many many years! Anyhow, just thought I'd share! Now all I have to do is come up with a pile of cash by Friday for the attorney. She is going to file next week! OH and one more thing, not only do I have a woman attorney, they are a Mother and daughter practice. So I have a barracuda and a piranha! Thanks once again for letting me ramble:):) NMR
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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 12:21pm
Hey NMR, glad to hear your visit went well. I know he has treated you horribly and you will need that financial support to provide for you. The only caveat I will add is I hope you won't avoid remarrying down the road just out of spite. I think you deserve that happiness and once you find the right person, I'm sure you won't care about the money anymore.

But I know that for now, you're thrilled to get some good news and I'm happy for you. Take care as you move forward with this. :)

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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 12:22pm
That's great news for you, NMR!!

~Flirty~

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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 12:43pm
Hi Omaha and Flirty, Thanks for your well wishes:) Omaha, Not that I wouldn't get married out of spite, I just don't see it in the cards. I really am looking forward to have my privacy and a chance to my life to live as I please. You never no though, I'll never say never! :):) NMR
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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 12:50pm
hey NMR -- i'll wish you luck, but with that mother/daughter team on your side, you'll do just fine and dandy!! keep dancing gurl!!

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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 12:52pm

All I have to say is....."YOU GO GIRL!"

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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 1:17pm
Hey - I'm a bit behind, but just wanted to say congratulations! That's great news that you get the full boat on alimony and possibly the house too!! Yahoo!! Good for you - you deserve it for putting up with so much! I wouldn't remarry either - just live in sin! What the heck - like a piece of paper matters! Also, that way you can dump his sorry ass, still have the alimony and move on! Excellent! Good job!

Take care of yourself - keep posting!!! :) I'm trying to keep up!!

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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 1:23pm
Hi JP, How the Hell you doing? I miss you! Yeah, I am finally making the leap! I found myself lying in bed yesterday morning redecorating my bedroom:) So tell, tell whats been going on with you? Oh, do you remember Dream/Angle? She has moved closer to me, only four hours away now. We have become very close friends! Who would have thunk it! Goes, to show this board is a good place:):) Keep in touch more often! NMR
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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 1:36pm
Wishing you well - I'll post what happens with mine once I have that meeting. I'm not out like you needing alimony or anything, so hopefully mine will be quick and as painless as possible. I just want it done and to be free - money is the last thing on my mind right now! But, you have other things to think about, and have put up with things long enough to get something out of this too. So - good luck and congratulations on your guts! Hold your head high and keep us posted :-) I'm so happy for you!! FMH6
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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 1:49pm
Hi Follow, OH, I don't need the money but figure I may as well take it:):) This is not my first D, the first one I felt the same way you do. Now, I'm going for the throat:):):)NMR