Roll Call

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Registered: 04-05-2007
Roll Call
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Fri, 05-29-2009 - 1:04am

Greetings my MAS friends!

I just wanted to chime in and say I am still here and reading avidly. Thought it might be a good time for a roll call. Who's here? Tell me something you are looking forward to as we start the summer.

Me personally? I am looking forward to a trip I have planned in June. It has been a very long time coming and I literally can't wait!

~Shadowz
~Shadowz
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Registered: 04-05-2007
In reply to: intheshadowz
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 8:35am

Posh, if you click on the name of the person you want to speak with privately, there is a "send e-mail" link. If they have their preferences set to accept e-mail they will get your e-mail. (And if it's Shadowz you want to speak with, of course she accepts e-mail and is a great "support person" to turn to!)

I'm here. I'm usually lurking whether or not I'm posting. I've been in my affair for 10 years and I can't believe it's been that long. A lot of marriages don't make the 10 yr. mark.

Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.

Proud to be a



You've got a lot of choices. I
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In reply to: intheshadowz
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 10:29am

Hi Lexione,


Thanks for the info.

 
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Registered: 11-28-2007
In reply to: intheshadowz
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 2:14pm

Hi Shadowz -


I'm still around - don't post as much as I used to - but I still read whenever I can - and post when I have something to say that I think might be helpful.


For those who don't know me - I was the CL here at MAS after and before Shadowz (lol - ok that was ackward to type) - I was a single/divorced OW in an A with a MM - started seeing each other almost three years ago now.


Eleven months after we started seeing each other online and in person (we were LDA) - he left

lightning in my heart

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Registered: 11-17-2008
In reply to: intheshadowz
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 2:39pm
I don't post much, but I'm here.
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Registered: 02-22-2008
In reply to: intheshadowz
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 2:45pm

Still here too, but my A with XSO/XBF/XAP is over.
At least I consider it as over. I´ve told him very clearly, but he doesn´t quite seem to agree. I still love him with everything I´ve got but I see that he is a dead end street. The negatives outweighed the positives and I just couldn´t do it anymore.

I´m still hanging around here though... My girls are still here....


Edwina
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Registered: 05-24-2009
In reply to: intheshadowz
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 2:52pm

Looking forward to taking a vacation! The past year has been a death march - I need a real vacation. Will probably try to get one or more mommy friends to rent a beach house together with kiddos. Am also renewing efforts to take better care of myself (got a new cardio machine and signed up for a yoga class). Primary goal is to focus on enjoying my children - I've found that separating from H and not going home to that stress has made me a much more relaxed and loving mother. Hoping for lots of time at the pool, catching fireflies in the yard, that kind of thing.

Hopefully the summer will also bring a separation agreement with H.

MASAlterego


www.nicegirllikeme.blogspot.com

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Registered: 01-12-2009
In reply to: intheshadowz
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 4:42pm

Hello,


I'm here.... still with my MM; although sometimes I wonder for how much

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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: intheshadowz
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 8:24pm

I, too, occasionally pop in and read what the future is pointing toward at MAS. I'm happy that the board has a steady and experienced helmsman.

I'm looking forward to the LAZY days of summer...my post affair relationship continues, 18 months and still growing, and I am content. Our distance is challenging (she lives 120 miles away), but we have managed to make that a positive. It's nice to be in a R that is open and honest. I recommend that to everyone.

I'm a bit sad that the board has gotten so...quiet. The changes, deletions, have squelched a lot of the energy and improvisation that was once apparent. I always enjoyed the back and forth, as it would often propel us to newer understandings..so it goes..

Peace...Lazy:)

 

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Registered: 09-29-2008
In reply to: intheshadowz
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 9:11am
Don't post much here but do read everyday. Been coming to board for 7 years. been with AP for 13 plus years or something like that. Just came back from great vacaton with H and a group of friends. Need to start planning my next vacation. Looking forward to the summer and a doing a lot of boating and fishing. Have a lot of weddings this summer too. Hopefully will be able to take a 2 day getaway with AP. We have never been able to do that but he made a promise to do it this summer...we will see.
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Registered: 08-05-2007
In reply to: intheshadowz
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 9:29am

Colorunner here -


engaged to my former AP - making all the wedding plans now.