Roll call

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Registered: 03-30-2003
Roll call
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Mon, 11-17-2003 - 1:48pm
Thought I'd take roll to see who's who. Started coming here a year ago and just started visiting. Good to see there's a few of us old timer's hanging around. Maybe we can give a little background on our ema's. Here's mine:

MW w/ MM, now going on 1-1/2 yr, 2 yrs, depending on when you count it started.

We're FWBs, more friends than anything.

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Registered: 09-16-2003
In reply to: luvinmyfriend
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 8:50am

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Registered: 04-07-2003
In reply to: luvinmyfriend
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 8:57am
I am MW with MM who is my boss. Have worked together almost 9 years and our first kiss was 5 years ago and things have progresed rather nicely over the last 14 months and more so in the last 5 months. We have not had ic yet but have done everything else! I get to see him everyday except weekends but we get "together" usually 1 or 2 times a week and it is after work. We will either stay late and "work" or go have a few drinks and come back to the office. We also have lunch at least once a week. We know the others spouse but we do not socialize together except once a year at the office Christmas party which is coming up soon. Tried phone sex last Friday for the first time. I was off and called him.. it was rather interesting.... He told me on his way out last night to call him again. He never says that. I guess I have started something new with us. I did call him last night but he was at a basketball game and it was bad timing.

Neither of has any intention of leaving our M. He claims he is happy in his M and feels the same about his W as I do that I love my H but am not in love with him. Neither has any intention of ending this but the guilt creeps in every so often.

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Registered: 10-23-2003
In reply to: luvinmyfriend
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 9:10am
Hi my name is liberalgirl and im a compulsive cheater...lol

My specs are as follows:

Married H#1 had an A with my now DH (a/k/a H#2)

Then paths crossed with my lifetime crush in Spring 2002 and we've been managing this rollercoaster ride ever since...he is engaged and she is expecting his child now come April...ugh...

No intention of leaving our current relationships, just enjoying what time we can have which isnt much but more than some...an hour or so a week of intimate time, phone calls besides...

f/k/a imshagnhurman

Most call me "LIB"....

cl-liberalgirl

callmeliberal@hotmail.com

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Registered: 11-13-2003
In reply to: luvinmyfriend
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 9:10am
I'm new here. I am a MW 2 months into a long distance relationship with a MM. We travel and meet in different cities. At this point, the playing field is even and we both want the same out of the relationship, with no intentions of leaving M. I have enjoyed reading your messages and finding other women in the same situation.

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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: luvinmyfriend
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 9:12am
Hi Dusty here, am MW and have been seeing MM for just over 2 years now. We usually talk online during workdays and usually meet about once a week at a hotel. Although we did have a 3 mos. break this fall which was hard to get thru for me. But I think things are getting back to "normal" now. Neither of us intending on leaving spouse, and I hope this will go on a long time. Its a comfortable relationship for us both I think.
xxxx
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Registered: 11-17-2003
In reply to: luvinmyfriend
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 9:51am
MW w/ MM going on 1 year in January though we had a few months with no contact. We have started talking and seeing each other again this past week though, we ended up having to put off seeing each other until Wednesday since things didn't work out for last night. I can't wait...it's been so long since we've hugged or snuggled. Wednesday couldn't come soon enough for me. We started out as very good friends and became FWBs...it's great to be talking to him again now.

justneedmore

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: luvinmyfriend
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 10:12am
Good morning to all our beautiful Goddesses!!

DW with long-term BF seeing MM for 3.5 years now. started as FWBs, evolved into a love affair and going strong. just saw MM this morning and am still smiling!

gurl

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In reply to: luvinmyfriend
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 11:46am
Hi,

I'm MW involved in EA with MM. We've been seeing each other a little over a year now, and it just gets better........

Neither of us have any intentions of leaving our M's, so we're both happy.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: luvinmyfriend
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 11:48am
MW with a MM. Mostly FWB, but it has been rocky lately, hence FWOB. Its a on again off again thing for us and this has been going on for a couple of years.
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Registered: 03-30-2003
In reply to: luvinmyfriend
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 12:10pm
Hi LF,

Mine was rocky alright for well over the 1st year, but we've found a 'safe' place for both of us and we're doing much better. The FWB/FWOB on and off thing was wild, but now we're FWBs (for now) and I think MM is handling it better.

Glad to see you here (again).

Luvin