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| Mon, 11-17-2003 - 1:48pm |
Thought I'd take roll to see who's who. Started coming here a year ago and just started visiting. Good to see there's a few of us old timer's hanging around. Maybe we can give a little background on our ema's. Here's mine:
MW w/ MM, now going on 1-1/2 yr, 2 yrs, depending on when you count it started.
We're FWBs, more friends than anything.

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I am a MW seeing MM (my boss) for 12 yrs. now. We plan to leave our spouses as soon as his youngest is in college - in about 3-1/2 yrs.
My M is more of an arrangement. H and I work opposite shifts, rarely spend any time together. My MM and his W have pretty much the same thing going. Both M's were over way before the A started. Hell of a way to live most of your adult life but what keeps me going is knowing the best is yet to come! I could not picure my life without my MM.
hugs,
your cyber pal
I joined the board about 14 months ago, and am seperated - D final in a few months. MM & I are FWB, and our affair began 15 - 18 months ago (hmmm, do I count the emotional leading up to the affair?). And, it's still gr-r-r-r-eat!
I'm not on the board constantly like I was...life has a way of interfering, lol. I miss the muses and old friends (come out, come out, where-ever you are). Glad you showed up!
Meow
Seeburg
Been in EMA for almost 3 years. He's M, so am I. We work together in different nearby cities (less than 1 hour apart). Sparks flew around for several years. It all came together on an out of town trip. Was great then and is awesome now. Deeply in love, but not leaving spouses. Been posting here on and off since before A began. Great board!
Annika
Brightest Blessings, Annika
OK, here's my story: I'm a (bear with me because I don't know all the correct abbreviations, or what some of them mean) MW he's a M(S)M, we have been in this relationship almost 4 years, but things have intesified in the last year, especially in the last 2 months. We meet every chance we get and he has admitted falling in love w/me, I already was w/him. I don't want to over step my bounds, none of the other posts were very long, so I don't know if that's frowned upon or not. Sex is great (can I say that?), in fact it just seems to get better. At first we didn't go that far, and then when we did, it was very infrequent, but now that he's moved out it's at least twice a week, mostly in our cars (we have a "secret spot"), but it doesn't feel sleezy to me in any way. Phone calls regularly, too. It seems like we may be heading for something more permanent and serious in the future, but it'll be a few years as we both need to get out of where we are now.
Anyway, hope this wsn't too long. BTW, what does FWB and FWOB mean? I can't figure them out! I am really glad to have found this place. No one else knows, and besides, who would understand?
Edited 11/28/2003 9:51:12 PM ET by ponydriver
I hope to hang around this board for awhile and sort things out. Gosh, what a mess I'm in, it's so complicated and difficult at times.
Group hug, and good luck to everyone. May you find lots of joy in your lives.
"Myself and Liberalgirl would like to make a warm welcome to all the New Members.
Below are just a few things you may need to know.
Some abbreviations that may help:
MM - Married Man
SM/OM - Single Man/Other Man
MW - Married woman
SW/OW - Single Woman/Other Woman
DH/H – Husband
DW/W - Wife
DD - Dependent Daughter
DS - Dependent Son
SS - Step Son
SD - Step daughter
EMA - extra marital affair
LDEMA – long distance extra marital affair
A – affair
M – marriage
LOL - laughing out loud or lots of love
*s* - smiles
BTDT - been there done that
HTH - hope this helps
TY - thankyou
FWB - Friends with Benefits
FWOB - Friends without Benefits
D - divorce.
There may be a few others but these are the main ones... if at any time you don't understand something, please just ask and I’m sure there will be someone around to help out.
Also, please make note that this is a public board, so please, do not include any of your personal details. There are others out there that will be quite happy to use these details against you. As long as you keep details general, it is a safe place to post.
To all members... please remember that from time to time we get outsiders that may not see eye to eye with what this board supports, I ask you to please not respond and move on. Posts can be reported by clicking on the 'Report a violation' link on the right hand side of a post, but remember that if the post does not violate TOS then it will remain, even if sarcastic. Also note that by responding... you, yourself may be violating TOS and could lose your membership. Remember too... that you can ignore... when viewing a post look on the left hand side of the screen for an 'Ignore Posts' link.
This board... is what we make of it... and it can be a great place to vent, cry, laugh and make friends...
If at any time you don't feel comfortable posting on the board... you are more than welcome to email me at any time you need... due to my own family life and commitments, along with time differences... I may not always respond immediately... but I will always respond. My email is... sweetc_@hotmail.com (careful of the underscore) or just click on the 'Email link' in my profile.
welcome!!
gurl
Hugs, and thanks again!
Pony
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