Roll call on SW

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2008
Roll call on SW
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Sun, 04-12-2009 - 9:24pm

Just wanting to get a feel for how many single women involved with a MM are in the house?

Being single vs being married puts the affair in a different perspective, and just want to chat with other SW who know what I'm going through as well.

Feel free to e-mail on here too. =)

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Tue, 04-14-2009 - 9:29pm

Hey maystone,


I do find that being single and in an A offers some unique challenges.

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Tue, 04-14-2009 - 9:36pm

I too find it helpful to be able to talk to other women who are in similar situations.

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2009
Tue, 04-14-2009 - 9:45pm

Hi lost!


It strikes me that you need to have a talk with your AP about honesty.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2008
Wed, 04-15-2009 - 2:16am

Hi Posh!


I am 22 and my AP is 35, so we have an age gap of 13 yrs too! And yes, its so difficult with us being young and never married or had kids... its lonely.


Anon-


I have had several talks with AP.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Wed, 04-15-2009 - 9:08am

Funny we have the same age gap!

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-21-2007
Wed, 04-15-2009 - 11:19am

Hi,

I'm a mm involved with a sw. So the same situation but the other side of the coin. From my perspective, I miss being able to see her when I want to. Especially the weekends. I know she's out and having fun, and I so wish that I could be with her sharing it. But alas, I guess that's why it's an affair, and not real life.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Wed, 04-15-2009 - 2:36pm

Hi Lost :)


What would happen if you said to him, "Listen, no need to lie to me....I'm not going anywhere...I mean you know that I must know...I'm not an idiot, but see, I'm still here through all the lies you tell me." Wouldn't that ease up some of


iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Wed, 04-15-2009 - 4:33pm

Hi ice blue eyes,


Welcome to the board.

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2007
Wed, 04-15-2009 - 4:50pm

Small hijack here...

Hi blue eyes, nice to see you still lurk among us.

~Shadowz
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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2008
Wed, 04-15-2009 - 7:12pm

Hi Clarity! :)


Thanks for your response, I alway appreciate what you have to say.


You'd think that that would work...but I have told him several times that no matter what his status is, that I am "in" no matter what and he continues to deny he's married! lol