Roller Coaster Just Derailed

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Roller Coaster Just Derailed
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Mon, 07-26-2010 - 11:20pm

It's really a long story considering it all pretty much happened today, but I just (once again) ended things with AP.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 08-11-2009
Mon, 07-26-2010 - 11:32pm

I am so sorry your weekend got canceled.

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Mon, 07-26-2010 - 11:39pm

Thank you, alive.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 07-13-2010
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 12:43am

Hi Another.

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 12:49am

Thank you for kind words, enough :).


He's been talking to me for the last hour, and I've agreed to meet with him this weekend to talk.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 10-03-2007
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 12:59am

Whatever happened to the baby you were having with him yday??

Wasted everyones time to respond to you,huh?

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Registered: 04-11-2010
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 7:59am

Replying to AE on ANY SUBJECT is never a waste of my time. EVER!


Happy to support her anyway she wants.


AE hang in there- we are here for you

You are what you consistently do
You are what you consistently do
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 10:20am

Thank you for defending me, and for your continued support, Iggy :)


For anyone else wondering the same thing, having a baby had/has nothing to do with whether or not AP and I are together.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 10-17-2007
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 11:08am
Speaking of a waste of time "heissick"...why do you even bother?
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Registered: 03-26-2010
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 12:22pm

AE---You always keep your cool :)

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Registered: 10-03-2009
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 12:29pm

It's getting to the third year in my A now.. I can easily say I've been to where you are now.. and wanted to break off many times..

I think what worked for me (us), was that, with her help, I was able to accept the limitations of a LDA, and enjoy the positive sides, the sharing, the friendship, the unique connection.. past that, it still hurts and always will, that we can't be close as often as we'd like.. but at the end, it really is that math of does this add more to my life than it subtracts.. and, by being patient and setting more realistic expectations, I was able to see that it does add more.. the rest, I count towards character building!

Seriously though.. the one thought that always stays with me is that, I know she gives of herself in this A just as much as I do, but in her own way. And I see signs, in your posts, that he does the same, in his own way, whatever he's capable of. Whether this is enough/right for you, you are the only one that can answer that..

best of luck..

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Edited 7/27/2010 12:30 pm ET by nevereasy

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