Roller Coaster Just Derailed

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Roller Coaster Just Derailed
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Mon, 07-26-2010 - 11:20pm

It's really a long story considering it all pretty much happened today, but I just (once again) ended things with AP.

anotherseyes

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Tue, 07-27-2010 - 2:35pm

Big big hugs another so sorry you are feeling like this. I am glad that you have decided to meet him as

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Tue, 07-27-2010 - 4:33pm

To Heissick - why don't you go and post your comments elsewhere!


AE - I am so sorry that you are hurting right now and am sending you big (((((HUGS)))))! Take some time - don't make any decisions right away. You've been in it this long...hang on a little longer. IM me whenever you want to! It's good to have someone to talk to:-)

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Tue, 07-27-2010 - 5:08pm

AE - I am so sorry for what you are going through.

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Tue, 07-27-2010 - 6:03pm
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Tue, 07-27-2010 - 6:09pm

I've been trying all day to think of something that might make you feel better Another, but I can't come up with anything. I do think when you're separated and then divorced, that it will be even worse to be on the sidelines of your AP's life. The lack of time together will be an issue that will keep coming up. If you don't think your R with him will be (or is) enough, you have to know when the right time for you will be to let it go. We can say go ahead, do it, but you're the one who will know if and when you're ready.

Also keep in mind that texting or e-mail is such a sorry place to have that conversation, with all the misunderstandings that can arise, but I understand that you don't have many options! It's such a hard place you're in. (((HUGS)))

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You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull

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Tue, 07-27-2010 - 8:10pm

Another ...I wrote you the LONGEST post about this today on my phone and it crashed it!! I lost everything!! :-)


Anyway ..here goes and if it doesn't help just tell me to f*** off ! (lol)


(..justlivin .... ;-))) .... ) ...sorry Lexi ...you have SUCH a hard time keeping us girls under control! ;-)


So ... let me tell you a story ...


For the first

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Tue, 07-27-2010 - 10:18pm

Thank you for sharing, nevereasy :)


I truly believe that a lot of what I'm feeling now stems from everything I'm going through in my own life, and the inability so really share with AP.

anotherseyes

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Tue, 07-27-2010 - 10:22pm

Thanks ali :)


The thing is, I'm not sure this is what I want.

anotherseyes

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Tue, 07-27-2010 - 10:23pm
Thanks loulou :).

anotherseyes

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Tue, 07-27-2010 - 10:27pm

Thanks justlivin :)


Usually I'm OK with what AP is able to give me: I know he's trying to do all he can do, it's just so hard sometimes with the LD aspect.

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