Rules of Attraction.........

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Rules of Attraction.........
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Fri, 08-06-2010 - 12:37pm

Hello All -


As I sit here,

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Registered: 05-19-2010
Fri, 08-06-2010 - 2:12pm

Of course he has the same thoughts !! Men are more visual,remember?? My guy gets all lusty when we see each other after more than 2 days.Even if I am not at the moment,I get all worked up when I see him like that;).

Its a pity you have to work with your ex AP.It must be crazy difficult.If my A ends,I guess either of us will have to move houses ( we aew neighbors).

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Fri, 08-06-2010 - 2:45pm

Hi Crazygirl,


I think he reminisces and has those same thoughts as well. It just made me think for a bit because my AP & I work for the same company and when I do end things with him I will most likely will bump into him and think back on our time together.


Don't you hate when you see him and he looks extra good? Ugh I'd have to just look away and keep it moving lol. I admire how you are staying strong and hope you always continue.


Best wishes to you!

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 05-03-2010
Fri, 08-06-2010 - 4:25pm
I think how you're feeling is completely normal, and would bet he's feeling the same way.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 05-26-2010
Fri, 08-06-2010 - 5:09pm

Thank you all for your input here; I wish I could wake up one day, come to work, look at him and think "man, he is so ugly", lol.


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Registered: 03-26-2010
Sat, 08-07-2010 - 12:11am
LOL!
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Registered: 03-29-2010
Sat, 08-07-2010 - 12:52pm
Could you sneak Snicker bars into his desk or something - maybe he'll gain weight or get zits or SOMEthing LOL... I'm not sure if it ever goes away. Just keep your resolve and KNOW that he's feeling the same thing.

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Registered: 05-26-2010
Wed, 08-18-2010 - 4:46pm

Thanks gals for all your input here.


Now when we see each other we just stare into each others eyes.....lol. I don't get a bad vibe at all, actually the opposite but that means nothing.....for all I know he could be thinking "gawd I hate you"...I hope not. It is over and I am fine with that, just wish I knew if he hated me or not.