The Rules of Communication
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| Fri, 04-30-2004 - 4:00pm |
This second time together, which was simply amazing, we talked a lot, and we enjoyed eachother......but I haven't emailed, nor has he (he's not much of an emailer) and nobody has called (he's not much of a caller either;). I know he's the type to get guilty though, so I have no problem just leaving him alone. Even for weeks if need be. We click, and I think we both know it, but we don't talk about it. Part of me feels bad I haven't contacted him since our last time together, it's been a little over a week....but I just really don't have anything to say. It's not like we're in a affair so to speak, we just enjoy eachother every once in a while. So, there's no rule I have to do anything, right? What does saying nothing, say?
thanks for any comments.
Jazz

It seems to me that he is waiting to hear from you first as to your thoughts about your fling. Guys have a hard time expressing their feelings, so he may be a little freaked out over it. I guess you need to also decide if you want to continue or cool it with him. If you want to continue, then I would let him know that. But just be careful and guard your heart. As with my situation, I thought I could handle it emotionally. Instead, I fell fast and hard for my MM and he broke my heart after about 6 months into it. We ended up back together so to speak, but it's been an absolute roller-coaster ride (more than 5 years now). He and I still vascillate back and forth because of the guilt thing. And even though we love each other, I don't think he will ever leave his W. I've realized he doesn't have the stomach for it. So I try to accept it for what it is and enjoy the time I spend with him. It's not an easy road to travel once your emotions come into play. Good Luck!!
Virgogirl