sad and devastating day tomorrow.

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Registered: 06-08-2007
sad and devastating day tomorrow.
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Tue, 09-02-2008 - 12:02am
about a year ago my AP business had opened a new spot and had high hoped it would do well, to no avail it failed badly. he was sent there to clean up the mess and they had hoped he could pick up the pieces, still it failed. we new the day was coming where it would be shut down. tomorrow is that day. when i called him today to see how he was he told me, they are cleaning out tomorrow. what does this mean for him. lets see they took him out of a money making spot he's done well for years and put him in crap. crap closes, he has nothing. they said to him they would put him back in his old spot again, but he's heard nothing. i told him today, they said nothing to you, how can you not know what's going on. they are messing with you financially, he may not have a job. a job he's loved, done well with, and been very happy. he doesn't know what time they are coming to clean the place, i told him i would call him in the morning to spend some time together. please tell me how not to freak out. it may be the last time we are together. how do i not cry, and be strong for him. he cut me short on the phone today abrubtley. he couldn't talk to me about the situation, and it hurt. i've been managing to keep myself balanced, but right now i want nothing to do with my H. i wish i could be with my AP. it's not fair that this has happened to him.
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Registered: 07-23-2008
Tue, 09-02-2008 - 4:38am

(((HUGS)))

I am so sorry this has happened to you tori...

I do hope the situation resolves its self miraclasly...(Angels sent)

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Registered: 09-21-2007
Tue, 09-02-2008 - 6:26am
It is sad...but every ending is a new beginning ...right? Maybe he could turn t upside down & look at it as a new start-endless possibilities!!!!

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Registered: 06-08-2007
Tue, 09-02-2008 - 6:29am
what's not fair is the years he's put into this company, making them money, being caring and forth coming, and he gets dumped on. he was promised something 5 months ago, that if the other place where he was started to tank, which it has , he would be placed back into. now the crapper is being shut down, and no word to be sent back, he's left hanging. i believe they would rather pay unemployment, then admit they where wrong in the first place. when he was moved the place lost a lot of money, because he cared and was good at his job, and took the extra mile.
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Tue, 09-02-2008 - 6:33am
i know he's not dealing with change well, i can hear it in his voice, unless he's sent back. if that where the case, he would've been told. it really hurt the way he got off the phone with me,i know he was upset, even though he played it off like he doesn't care.
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Tue, 09-02-2008 - 9:50am
i'm going to be off to see him this morning, and maybe by the grace of god good news will come along and these people found some common sense and will let him go back to his old spot. we'll see, highly unlikely, but one can hope. if not i'll say to him this will open up new avenues for him to look into. maybe i'll see him sometime in the future, again one can hope. i'll enjoy my last time with him. i'm not goimng to be upset, but look at it as a new beginning in our lives. the last year and half is something i'll never regret. thank you all for being there.
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Tue, 09-02-2008 - 8:13pm
i wish he would've told me he was leaving, i wish he could've been honest. i know he tried to spare him and i the pain, he did what was best for him. it makes sense, he's been very depressed. i sent him an email, first time ever. i don't expect a resose, but i told him i fell in love with him. i wish him all the luck in the world, then god bless and take care.