Sad and lonely

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2008
Sad and lonely
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Fri, 10-17-2008 - 9:10pm

I have never done this before. I have a need to reach out. I am new to this site, please forgive me if I do/say the wrong thing.


I am in love with a married man. He loves me too. I know, the old cliche.


My best and oldest friend found out her husband has been having an affair and caught him, at least 3 times even. This is very difficult. We have been talking a little about it, although I don't think we should, different situations.


When we met, my "boyfriend", which he truly is, had an open relationship with his wife, they have been together for 17 years or so. I answered a personal ad, looking for a fling and nothing more. We met, it was only supposed to be sex, no strings, not complicated, no drama.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2008
In reply to: ravyn67
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 11:14pm
I am sorry you are hurting.
You need a life away from him, something that will keep you busy and happy regardless if he is with you or not.
Good luck. Take care of yourself and you kids..remember, he is just a man. Just so much he has to offer. No need to feel lonely and hurt. Go out, meet people, construct your whole life independent of him.
((hugs))
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Registered: 10-17-2008
In reply to: ravyn67
Sat, 10-18-2008 - 12:18pm

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