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Sad during sex
| Tue, 09-30-2003 - 4:01pm |
I am a married woman seeing a married man for about 4 months. We work together and have known each other for 1 year. We started as best friends and escalated from there. To go staight to the point we both have said that we love each other but the discussion of being together has never come up he has a child I have none. Twice now during sex he has said that he wants to ejaculate inside of me and I have said "no" and he asks "why" and I said "because of what happens nine months later thats why" and he says that it would be nice to have a kid and that didnt I say that I wanted one. The conversation ends there. Thing is first time he said this we talked about it afterwards and he said that he didnt mean to freak me out that he thought a child between us would be interesting and that he would give me one if I wanted. The second time he asked me if I was freaked out about what he said and I said "no not really" and he said that it was psychological that it helps to say things like that during sex. I am no idiot I have never heard of that. I just don't understand it I feel it is a game, or he felt rejected and embarrassed, since we are both married to other people and having a kid is impossible. HELP. Just need some feedback. Thanx

Well, just thought I would let you know I was going through same thing
hugs, Sarah
Bfly