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| Thu, 01-29-2004 - 3:37pm |
My biggest fear right now is posting to this site! Is it safe to post under my own user name and believe my H won't find out? Is there a way for him to see what I have written through our computer? He does not snoop, but I need to know in case he has any suspicions. How safe is this?
Thanks!
Lazyone
Thanks!
Lazyone

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Mama
great advice hotmama -- exactly what i was getting ready to post to lazyone.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
I happen to be in the IT business and the truth is that anyone can go online and download free software that runs in the background unnoticed and tracks your keystrokes passwords and anything else you do with the computer, deleting cachs cookies and the like provide no protection at all, using this software is simple and anyone can install it in minutes.
Just for your info
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Spybot was built to detect intrusion from outside and uses a form of database to know what to look for the software I am talking about would be installed by the spouse or someone elso on the PC it would not be detected by spybot and a firewall would be of no use because is blocks outside access and does not monitor what is going on on the PC itself, this software was built to hide on the PC and not be found it does not take enough CPU Cycles to slow the PC down, the ownly way to find it is to know that it is there first.A pro would find it if he/she knows that it is there an Amateur would have to be very lucky.
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Evidence Elliminator like all of that type of software looks in predetermined places for info , spy software will capture the information as you are doing whatever your doing and store it in a encrypted form that Elliminator will not understand, besides all that there claims are just BULL*HIT it is next to impossable to remove info from a harddrive without overwriting it hundreds of times, even f-disk and reformat do not work.
Spycop makes the claim that it can detect all spy software , HOW the ownly way for it to do that is to know about all the spy software there is or the file names or look for some sort of predetermined footprint, if I as a software engineer change specific things about my software then the footprint will change and it will not be detected.
If it were possable to detect and stop every type of software produced then virus writers would be out of business today.
ANYONE SAYING THAT THEY CAN DETECT AND STOP ALL SOFTWARE HAS A PRODUCT TO SELL $$$$
If a spouse installs spy software and you kill it your telling them that they have a reason to whatch you more closely and Affairs cannot servive that.
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I think I had asked this earlier- what if you just have a msn account that is free so the messages are never saved to my computer. Can this be accessed? MM is going through a divorce and at first felt uncomfortable about email- but feels OK now. I am worried that I may get dragged into it if his W finds out anything. We have been friends for 20+ years so I am not as worried about phone calls as he is. He thinks they are easily traceable--which I agree, but it is just a record that a call was made - not a transcript.
So how do you use email to MM and feel comfortable that you won't get caught??
tb
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