safety in posting

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-26-2004
safety in posting
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 3:37pm
My biggest fear right now is posting to this site! Is it safe to post under my own user name and believe my H won't find out? Is there a way for him to see what I have written through our computer? He does not snoop, but I need to know in case he has any suspicions. How safe is this?

Thanks!

Lazyone
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Registered: 12-28-2003
Tue, 02-03-2004 - 9:33pm
my my don't you sound judgemental and a bit narrow minded to.

Pen has a right to express here opinions and so does everyone else with out getting a lot of attitude.

FREE to speakup

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Registered: 12-28-2003
Tue, 02-03-2004 - 9:35pm
Hey NMR

Yep you are lucky, hang on to that job.

FREE

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Tue, 02-03-2004 - 9:41pm
Okay, first of all I'd like to say I do post alot from work. And I only talk to MM on IM's at work, we don't contact each other on nights or weekends. So if I got caught at work, well I guess I would just tell them it was my boyfriend and I didn't think that was against the rules. I'm not downloading porn or anything. And lots of people are emailing, IM'ing their spouses from work. That's a given. Would they rather you sit on the phone all day?? I get my work done but in between working, MM and I IM each other all day long mostly.

I don't feel it interupts with my productivity at work, and he owns his own company, so he has no worries. But I do delete all cookies and histories and all that crap. So if I did get caught, I would just say, "sorry, I won't do it again, I'm blonde, give me a break" lol.

xxxx
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Registered: 11-06-2003
Tue, 02-03-2004 - 9:43pm
Read above doll..."This board is a support community for members who ARE involved in an extramarital affair (EMA). This board is NOT a place to post opinions about infidelity."


"my my don't you sound judgemental and a bit narrow minded to."

It's spelled judgmental!! LOL. Oh, and "to" should be "too."



SPOKEN

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Tue, 02-03-2004 - 9:46pm
Just let them say what they will. They don't understand if they've never been in the A. The thrill, the flutter in your heart when you see him. The excitement you see when he's online and you talk for hours and hours. I tell you, if I got in trouble from work, I would feel really bad. But then i would just tell MM to get me a cell, and I'd talk to him all day long on that. He's got money, he can pay the bills. So there (tongue sticking out!!)
xxxx
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Tue, 02-03-2004 - 9:48pm
I am "sassy" today!! That's because i got laid this afternoon and it was great!! I would give anything to do it all over again.

Anyways, just had to get that out of my system. Okay, time for another glass of wine!!

I am such a naughty b**ch!!
xxxx
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2003
Tue, 02-03-2004 - 9:53pm
I lurk here a lot...I AM in an A!!:) Just a bit tired of the "opinions" and thought someone should speak up for the women here.

Yup...they'll say what they will, and can ponder and question it all they like (meanwhile we'll just let our hearts flutter...you only live once)!

I'd rather just let people "be" if you know what I mean.





iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2003
Tue, 02-03-2004 - 9:55pm
Good for you doll...we'll get laid and they can ponder!!! LOL
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Tue, 02-03-2004 - 9:57pm
You are so right happy gal!! You only live once. And believe me, before I started in this A, I thought long and hard about it. And decided it was worth it. I don't want to live til I'm 80, and look back at how DIS-satisfied I was with my life. At least I have some wonderful memories to remember when I am old and wrinkled. I can say I LIVED> and I LOVED> and I ENJOYED IT TOO, TO THE MAX!!

No regrets here !!

Just call me BAADD!!!
xxxx
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Registered: 11-06-2003
Tue, 02-03-2004 - 10:09pm
You are BAAADD!! LOL

Nice talking with you tonight.

happygal