safety in posting

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Registered: 01-26-2004
safety in posting
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 3:37pm
My biggest fear right now is posting to this site! Is it safe to post under my own user name and believe my H won't find out? Is there a way for him to see what I have written through our computer? He does not snoop, but I need to know in case he has any suspicions. How safe is this?

Thanks!

Lazyone
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Tue, 02-03-2004 - 10:16pm
I guess I must sound facetious, but really (for all you lurkers out there!!) I am very happy where i'm at right now. My H is a good man but is an alcoholic. That is his first love. Me, well I come a distant second. Sure, I'm fine to cook his meals, keep house and converse with him, but that's about all he wants right now.

If he got better I would be so happy. But I'm not going to leave him over that. And sure, it would really hurt him if he found about me and MM, but hasn't he hurt me?? You bet, alot!!

So, I am working every day. I am going to the gym about 3-4 times a week. And seeing MM about once a week or two. When he can manage it. And I am very satisfied and content with how things are right now. I actually think my home relationship with H is more calm now that I have MM. Because before I was a screaming B**ch at him all the time over no sex, too much booze, etc. Now I live and let live. Amen.

xxxx
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Registered: 12-28-2003
Tue, 02-03-2004 - 11:07pm
There you go judgeing again.

You don't get to tell other people how to offer support, the empire is dead britty.

FREE

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Registered: 11-06-2003
Tue, 02-03-2004 - 11:16pm
OMG...wake up. I'm quoting from the guidelines of the board. LOL

But you can still call me "britty" (since you are unable to practice what you preach)!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Wed, 02-04-2004 - 12:55am
Happy your the one that came in here trying to push people around all you had to do was leave pen in peace and let her talk, she would do the same for you she is a very civil person.

Please note that the guide lines are subject you US law that protects freedom of speech , and my right to make typoes to.

You push a Yank you can count on getting pushed back, you want to be friendly thats what you will get back.

There is the ignore button if nothing else works for you, whats say we just let it drop now as it is not worth the time or effort to continue.

Have a good day

FREE

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Registered: 01-21-2004
Wed, 02-04-2004 - 10:36am

hey dusty, you and happy held the flag up for the board last evening!

CL-Gurlfriend50

Co-CL of My Affair Support Board

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Wed, 02-04-2004 - 11:03am
Hey, how ya doin? I am great today. My kids were mad at me last night for hogging the computer but oh well, I never get a turn!!

Anyways, have a great day!!

Dusty
xxxx
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Registered: 01-21-2004
Wed, 02-04-2004 - 11:12am

hi honey!

CL-Gurlfriend50

Co-CL of My Affair Support Board

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Wed, 02-04-2004 - 11:51am
Well I did have fun on the computer last night, that's for sure!! But usually I am too busy to go on it at night, or H is around lurking in the background. He's always so nosy about what I'm doing on there, its almost like I'm a kid!!~

xxxx
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Registered: 01-21-2004
Wed, 02-04-2004 - 12:13pm

CL-Gurlfriend50

Co-CL of My Affair Support Board

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Wed, 02-04-2004 - 12:29pm
Well especially since we are talking on this thread, I'm always worried H's checking up on me. So I make sure to delete all the cookies and all that stuff. And delete the history. But I'm usually not on it because 3 kids take over the computer full-time really. Plus MM and I don't talk in the evenings or weekends either, so alot of times there's no reason really for me to get on it, except for when I'm bored. But I'll probably be on again sometime soon while H is working nights!! Like he is this week.
xxxx