Said His name in my Sleep

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Registered: 11-17-2007
Said His name in my Sleep
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Fri, 01-23-2009 - 7:52pm
So this morning, when i got up, my husband asks me why i'm saying some other guys name in my sleep...and he's telling me that i said "it felt good" . Apparently, i said my AP's name, cuz my husband stated what name i had said in my sleep...I dont remember the dream at all, darnit!!!! Strange thing is, i had said the very same thing to my AP a week before. Telling him about how i was wondering if i was gonna say his name out loud sometime talking in my sleep. I also tend to wrap my arms around my pillow thinking its AP...only to wake up and realize its not...i just brushed the subject off, and said thats the silliest thing i ever heard of, and that i didn't remember saying anything. He didn't pursue the subject again, but he's been making comments about my "boyfriend". I brush those off too..AP and hubby know of each other but are not friends..
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2008
Fri, 01-23-2009 - 10:56pm
OMG, this is one of my worst fears.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2008
Sat, 01-24-2009 - 1:28pm
Your AP and H know of eachother?? You mean to say that your H is aware of your A ? Am i missing something??
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2007
Sat, 01-24-2009 - 2:46pm
No, they just know who each other is... they talk together when the rare occasion comes up that we are all together.....hubby has no idea how deep me and AP are involved..
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-17-2008
Sat, 01-24-2009 - 2:57pm
i actually dreamt that
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2003
Sat, 01-24-2009 - 5:31pm

ah its just a dream.

~k
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2008
Sun, 01-25-2009 - 4:44am
i dont know your story but i get a feel from your posts that your emotionally very attached to your AP which has the possibility of getting out very difficult.Is your AP M as well? Tell me more.
I wish you guys well but be careful.If your H knows AP then he must be knowing his name as well,gosh! No advice but i am here if you wish to talk.