Screw this crap (I'm such a poet)

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Screw this crap (I'm such a poet)
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Tue, 08-10-2010 - 3:12pm

I'M READY TO GET OFF THIS *&%^$#^ RIDE!!!


So I saw AP on FB yesterday, wanted to say hi, send him a nice note because I know things are ending and I had just wanted to thank him for being there for me.

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 3:47pm

Hi Jane,


I think it was a nice letter and I hope he will be gracious enough to let this ride smoothly. I do agree that its not nice going NC with someone without warning or hesitation but most people feel in A there are no rules. I've tried pulling the NC without explanation but felt like sh@t so we started talking again. I feel I can't be that cruel but with me just seeing him makes me weak and I know I'll only cave in.


I think your taking the fact that you both will end very well and I wish you all the best in this transition in your life.

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Tue, 08-10-2010 - 4:11pm

I had logged back off after I sent the message because the cable guy was here, but after he left, I logged back on.

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Tue, 08-10-2010 - 4:29pm
Thanks, Rayne.
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Wed, 08-11-2010 - 12:53pm

OK, so he messaged me today and we chatted for a while, but he seemed distracted.

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Wed, 08-11-2010 - 3:39pm

janejosie - your comment made me laugh - "he doesn't get to keep FB in our divorce!"

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Registered: 04-11-2010
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 1:00am

Jane where did you get to with this?

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You are what you consistently do
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 10:58am
Do you think things are just coming to a natural end, or are you forcing it due to circumstances?

anotherseyes

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Thu, 08-12-2010 - 3:32pm

We did end up chatting again yesterday.

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Thu, 08-12-2010 - 3:56pm

Seriously, I hope you keep moving like you are, you've been unhappy in this for awhile.


No kidding! And it's only been an A for like 9 months!

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Registered: 04-11-2010
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 8:34pm

Oh I doubt that sweetie. There is no way he wouldnt know what you were both doing and feeling.


Men are odd creatures- feel so deeply but so terrified of thinking that way or articulating it. From all accounts jane I think he was very smitten and he will feel the loss of this immensely.


You are what you consistently do

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