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Screw this crap (I'm such a poet)
| Tue, 08-10-2010 - 3:12pm |
I'M READY TO GET OFF THIS *&%^$#^ RIDE!!!
So I saw AP on FB yesterday, wanted to say hi, send him a nice note because I know things are ending and I had just wanted to thank him for being there for me.

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Hi Jane,
I think it was a nice letter and I hope he will be gracious enough to let this ride smoothly. I do agree that its not nice going NC with someone without warning or hesitation but most people feel in A there are no rules. I've tried pulling the NC without explanation but felt like sh@t so we started talking again. I feel I can't be that cruel but with me just seeing him makes me weak and I know I'll only cave in.
I think your taking the fact that you both will end very well and I wish you all the best in this transition in your life.
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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I had logged back off after I sent the message because the cable guy was here, but after he left, I logged back on.
OK, so he messaged me today and we chatted for a while, but he seemed distracted.
janejosie - your comment made me laugh - "he doesn't get to keep FB in our divorce!"
Jane where did you get to with this?
anotherseyes
We did end up chatting again yesterday.
Seriously, I hope you keep moving like you are, you've been unhappy in this for awhile.
No kidding! And it's only been an A for like 9 months!
Oh I doubt that sweetie. There is no way he wouldnt know what you were both doing and feeling.
Men are odd creatures- feel so deeply but so terrified of thinking that way or articulating it. From all accounts jane I think he was very smitten and he will feel the loss of this immensely.
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