Second Place.....Anyone?
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Second Place.....Anyone?
| Tue, 01-27-2004 - 11:42pm |
I just thought of something else that has been bothering me: Can any of you relate to or tell me if any of you are EVER bothered by the feeling of being second or less important? Am I wrong for feeling this way?

the best way I've found to deal with it is to try not to even think
about yourself being "second best". if he makes sacrifices or does anything
he can to see you, talk to you, etc, you shouldn't feel like you're
second best. even though MM and I can't see each other that often,
it doesn't mean that I'm not in his thoughts or heart... your MM can
be at home, but his heart is with you. (assuming that your relationship
has gone that far yet) If the 2 of you do not plan on leaving your respective
spouses for one another, just remember that taking care of your own spouse/
family is priority #1, and will most likely be for your MM too.
don't get me wrong, I have my moments too... I wanted to meet with MM one night after
work, and he said he couldn't... I finally got it out of him- he said that
his W was planning a dinner for just the 2 of them at home. wow, that stung.
really, really stung me. I'd never felt so heartbroken before. and he didn't
want to hurt me, but at least he told me the truth.