Seeing Ap with Wife this Weekend

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Registered: 11-17-2007
Seeing Ap with Wife this Weekend
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Tue, 06-02-2009 - 7:21pm
I am going to a family/friends reunion-campout this weekend, and Ap is gonna be there with his son and wife, camping out. I can't help but wonder how ap is gonna act towards me for two days. I do know his son wanted to go, which made the wife want to go , too..
I am not going to miss an opportunity to see old friends and family, simply cuz she is gonna be there. I can't help but really think she is going to keep an eye on him.
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Registered: 12-25-2008
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 8:03pm
I couldn't bear to watch AP and W all weekend - I'd vomit or cry.
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Registered: 11-17-2007
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 10:17pm
Luckily its a huge place and i wont have to hang with them or even near them. I'll have enough to do there, and friends i haven't seen in a year,... But the revengeful part of me wants to go up to their camper and start a conversation with him just to upset her. ( which of course i won't do). And luckily they are not into PDA, either.
But i still don't want her to go with him. Theres always the option of bringing hubby along with me. Now theres an idea...hmmmm...wonder if there will be a way to sneak off with ap and leave my hubby with ap's W...wishful thinking.
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Registered: 11-12-2008
Wed, 06-03-2009 - 10:57am

All the best to you but would caution against friends picking up signals you and AP will send each other !! The 'friend' look and the 'in love' look,you may not notice but people around you definitely will.

Whats the revenge for?I have followed your story but cant remember anything like that mentioned before.Please refresh me.

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Registered: 11-17-2007
Wed, 06-03-2009 - 4:05pm
Now that my raging pms has calmed down a bit, i can use my head a little more rationally. And actually, after two years, no one in our circle of friends has suspected anything at all...they already knew we were friends for the last ten years...so i will go without any expectations of anything and that way i can just take things as they come.
And as far as his W, she is not someone any of us can stand being around because she is so self-centered and negative. And emotional and psychologically abusive to him, too. Treats him like a slave in front of people. He acts like a different person around her, and everyone else has noticed, too. Esp. within the last 3yrs. he's withdrawn a lot from our group.
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Registered: 07-17-2004
Wed, 06-03-2009 - 6:18pm

Yikes, i couldnt spent the whole weekend being in the same vicinity of my AP and his W.