seeing others while in A, advice please?

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Registered: 03-26-2009
seeing others while in A, advice please?
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Tue, 07-14-2009 - 12:07am
Hi all, so I've posted here once before. My situation is I'm in an A with a MM. I am
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Registered: 12-18-2008
Tue, 07-14-2009 - 7:07am

Take a breath and relax. You're just doing what he's doing. He's cheating on his W with you, you're cheating on him with this other guy. In this world we're all cheaters, doing what we have to to get what we want. I learned a long time ago the hard way to keep emotions out of it. Enjoy the ride and when you can't enjoy it any more, get out of it. . .just my .02.

-jana

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Registered: 05-02-2004
Tue, 07-14-2009 - 7:21am
Excelllent advice.
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Registered: 01-12-2009
Tue, 07-14-2009 - 2:45pm

I tend to disagree.

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Registered: 03-26-2009
Tue, 07-14-2009 - 11:24pm
Well that's the thing that's bothering me... If
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Registered: 06-29-2009
Wed, 07-15-2009 - 5:24pm
I'm a MM with xAP MW. If she was single I would expect her to date as long as I slept in the same bed as my wife. You Ap should leave his wife TODAY if he wants to be with you. That's BS. He's having his cake and eating it too. IMO - as a MM in an affair. I know my AP still had sex with her H. She actually had sex with someone else when we were broken up at one point. OUCH! But his is the game we are in. You should not wait for him in celibacy.
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Registered: 01-12-2009
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 8:15pm

Hello all ~


I'm glad I found this thread. I have the same issue with my AP. He's MM, I'm S.