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| Mon, 01-19-2009 - 10:10pm |
i just got an email from my xap, i guess he's having a bad time at home. he may be leaving for a couple of days, and he wanted to let me know. i answered him back in 2 seperate emails, one told him i'm sorry for what's going on(not sure of the details), and 2 i told him if he needed to talk to let me know. anything else i can do for him. i know from past experience how his state of mind can get. i would like to be able to keep him in rational thought, not crazy. if anyone has serous answers, not criticizing, help me out. thanks.

Nothing you can do but make sure he knows you are there for him if he needs to talk - and you have done that.
Now you simply have to sit back and wait for him to come to you - and that is so horribly difficult - but it's the nature of A-land.
Hang in there - stay strong - and I hope things settle down for AP as well.
Hugs -
Tgr ;)
Waiting is the hardest thing to do, but, I think you need to wait it out. You let him know you will be there for him, he knows this. I am sure he will contact you when he can.