serious queation part 2, results.

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serious queation part 2, results.
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Fri, 11-21-2008 - 11:47am

for those who are curious, everything with the lump is ok. to let you guys know, to check for genital warts, use white vinegar, if it turns pale or white, it's warts, if it don't change color, it's ok. just like you guys said, from shaving there, i most likely knicked myself, and i healed with a lump.

now with my other issue, she's very concerned. i told her it's my left pelvic side where the pain is. she feels it could be something with my fallopian tubes or ovaries. i'm going in for a sonagram on monday before my pap in dec. not to get graphic, but when she put her fingers in me, afterwards i thought i would hit the roof with shooting pain. she thinks it could a partial tubal pregnancy, i told her it's been going on for a while, that now has gotten worse. one day at a time. maybe getting laid off was a blessing in a way, it's forcing me to take care of my health, which i'll ignore. thanks for the support.

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Fri, 11-21-2008 - 4:52pm
i think why she didn't think it was serious is because of how long i've been experiencing the pain. it's been it least 3 months. if there was any signs of an aborted baby at all, pieces, i would know. it's something else. if it was that serious, she would not have me wait.
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Fri, 11-21-2008 - 5:02pm
I hope you let your AP (AND your husband, though you don't mention him)know that it probably isn't anything real serious, and are not letting him continue to think something is horribly wrong. I agree with everyone here...if you had something that the doctor considered terribly serious, there is no way she would have put a sonogram off until Monday. Trust me, I know. My doctor sent me over that very afternoon.
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Fri, 11-21-2008 - 5:15pm
my AP and I both figure it's nothing serious. i was thinking possible cancer, or cysts. we'll see. as i got back, messaged him to let him know. he was right there waiting for me to get home. my husband doesn't know anything yet. i'll go for the sonogram and pap, and if it's something very serious, i'll tell him. i go to my AP for everything. from health problems, moving, resume criticing, work related problems( which i'm very hard on myself about), to making certain dishes.
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Fri, 11-21-2008 - 11:16pm

Considering that this person always sensationalize whatever it is she's posting (you can research some her posts) for attention, you'll realize that she's mostly drama (like in soap) and when challenged with her story, will then down play things with nonsensical explanations.

She probably just have an infection from rough sex abrasions that requires antibiotic.

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Fri, 11-21-2008 - 11:57pm
how would you know what my problem is, are you a doctor. we'll see after my dr visits. i hope to god it's something simple that just needs antibiotics. considering i haven't been for a pap since i can't remember, we'll see. i'm not one to take care of myself medically. i either will let it go until i get very sick, or it interferes with my daily life. i never had a mamogram neither. i know you don't like my threads, guess what, you get under my skin to. you think you know it all. i hope your right.
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Sat, 11-22-2008 - 12:36pm
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Edited 11/22/2008 2:15 pm ET by sexybabygirl2008
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Sat, 11-22-2008 - 12:59pm

>>>"onsidering i haven't been for a pap since i can't remember, we'll see. i'm not one to take care of myself medically. i either will let it go until i get very sick, or it interferes with my daily life."<<<

So you could be carrying a contagious deadly disease and just kept going merrily along having unprotected sex with your AP..... hmmm....

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Sat, 11-22-2008 - 3:28pm
i have fairly healthy constitution, but no i don't go to the doctors unless i'm forced to. i was forced to so to speak. yup that's right. hard to swallow. i wont, don't go to the doctor. i hate em. i think the last time i had a pap was maybe after my son was born, never had a mamogram, the last time i has physical was in hs. i've never had a serious ilness where i needed a doctor. i don't have a physician, a dentist, obgyn, i have one now. it was only because i was forced to go because of a lump,i decided to find out why i'm cramping. if it wasn't for the lump, i would've ignored it until i got really sick. wether you choose to believe me or not, well it's your choice. don't accuse some one of not saying the truth, when it is. i do not medically take care of myself, i hate dr. i would prefer to pretend it will go away. sometime in my life i know my luck will run out. last dec i went to a clinic.
the way i choose to take of my health is my business.
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Sat, 11-22-2008 - 4:07pm

You missed the point of what Goddess said.


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Sat, 11-22-2008 - 4:34pm
tori omg okay good luck hun alright hugs...stay on top of this!