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| Sat, 04-04-2009 - 7:09pm |
my wife and i are going through some rough times and have both said things that are hurtful and not very nice to one another. we apologize often but you know the thoughts are still there of hurt.
so my purpose is to try and become more sensitive to her needs and try to understand why we both our problems around on our backs. i want be able to listen and understand her outburst and soothe her when she is haywire. likewise to control my own impulsive actions at the same time.
i am just looking for advice on how to be a better husband for her. i fear that if we can't meet in the middle, divorce may be around the corner.
our problems stem from a past affair and stagnant communication. the affair is done and over with so the communication problem is paramount.
any ideas or workshop advice on how to get the ball rolling?
