Seriously - perhaps I should leave??

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Registered: 06-17-2010
Seriously - perhaps I should leave??
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Fri, 07-30-2010 - 3:37pm

AP's wife found out

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Registered: 10-03-2009
Fri, 07-30-2010 - 3:56pm

Hi Bee,

Very rarely does an A get tested as yours seem to be right now. And under stress, you get a glimpse of the real AP. Whatever the reasons for his behavior, this is how he is reacting. Is this the kind of person you want as an AP? Does it matter to YOU? I guess it does, since you've posted these very valid questions.

I think you know the answer and I think you know the path to take that'll make you happy. I think you already have a good sense of what woill bring you peace in the long term.

I think it isn't a question of whether you are kind enough to be there for him, it is a question of whether he deserves any of your kindness, being the kind of person you describe him to be.

Good luck..
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Registered: 03-26-2010
Sat, 07-31-2010 - 12:30am

People respond to grief differently.

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Registered: 02-06-2010
Sat, 07-31-2010 - 5:07am

i think i am going to b frank, so pls forgive me, but first, can i ask what u 2 do for a living? ...just wondering.


one - he is not strong enough to leave her.


two - embryos imho are not children. but if his remarks seem callous to you. wisen up.


three - he is a crazy person and has no plans to leave her, nor does he seem strong enough to leave her.


oh dear. i think u can find a much better match with much less drama. why choose this one? good luck & please be strong! throw him back - and live and learn. tell him no thank you.

when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal
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Registered: 06-17-2010
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 11:47am

Thanks to all of you for your comments,


The weekend was quiet, I purposely stayed back, tho AP did call me and texted me.

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 12:26pm

Hi Lelibee,


I don't think he'll ever be ready to leave

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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