Sex-does that get your attention LOL
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| Tue, 03-02-2004 - 8:49am |
I love my OM, and I do care about my H. If I quit having sex with H he would definitely know that something is up. Admittedly, our sex life has slowed considerably, but we still do it a couples times a week.
OM and I rarely get to "go all the way" because of time constraints and location difficulties, but we are very intimate in other ways. I know he would prefer that I didn't sleep with H, but the only way I could justify that is to just leave H outright, and I'm not prepared to do that.
I don't want to hurt OM's feelings, and I feel very uncomfortable talking about H with him in that manner. How do the rest of you deal with that Q? I mean it's not like OM isn't aware that I'm married or anything, just he's having a hard time knowing he's not the "only one" in my life. BTW, OM is single, I'm married.

Best of luck with the continued R.....
well, he isn't the only one in your life, is he?
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
So far, he hasn't said anything about it. But I really like the response about making love, because it's absolutely true. I only have sex with H because I know I have to. There is little fulfillment there. Whereas with OM, it's like we connect, mind, body & soul.