sex just complicates things right now

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-05-2004
sex just complicates things right now
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Sun, 04-11-2004 - 6:58am
I have been thinking about the things my MM has said to me the last two times we have talked. He told me that sex just complicates things right now. I asked him why? And he said just because it does! What could that mean? He had expressed that on the phone to me and then after a few days we were having sex when he came to see me. Is he trying to figure out if it is just sex between us or what? I really don't understand some of the things he is going through since he found out that his wife is leaving him. Any ideas on this one?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-19-2003
Sun, 04-11-2004 - 4:22pm
I don't know, hon, for I haven't had sex yet. LOL I guess when you have sex it harder to have NC as you have another level of intimacy involved in your relationship. This is assuming you have a healthy view of sex. hee hee I hope that made sense?!
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Registered: 02-16-2004
Tue, 04-13-2004 - 11:52am
Maybe it's easier for him to convince himself he's not emotionally involved if there is no sex involved. Perhaps once sex is involved, for him, there may be no turning back.