Sex to Love...Is it possible?
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| Fri, 01-16-2004 - 2:09am |
I am new here and I surely am glad to have found you guys!!! Kindly enlighten me here...
You see, I've been having an EMA for just 2months now... and it's just all about SEX!!!
Well, MM meets with me for sex, and I meet him also for sex... IT'S PURELY ALL ABOUT SEX!!! I cant beleive I can be so horny when I'm with him, all the things I never thought I'd be doing, I mean, there's something about MM that releases my WILD SIDE!!! And I guess, thats also the reason why he is having an EMA with me... Maybe we just find each other so irresistable!
I care for him, and he surely does care for me, he treats me well and he makes me feel real special! But we both know that all we have is an EMA, and we both admitted that neither one of us will eventually leave our M.
But a couple of days ago, I found myself, you know, starting to feel something out of the ordinary with MM, starting to wonder if there is a possibility that we would actually be... IN LUVV? I am not saying that I'm falling inlove with him...WHATEVER!!! I am just, you know... wondering.

Is it also possible that MM would also feel something out of the ordinary with me? What I meant was, not just SEX? He does makes me feel special and cares for me, but I am not so sure if its just an act or what.
Has anybody here ever started an EMA, just purely based on SEX thing?... and then turns out both parties being in love with one another? Not to the point of leaving their respective M, but just, you know, really loving each other.
Your feelings are normal happens all the time, you will feel more then MM.
You can expect MM to play on your feelings to keep the fun and games going tell his circumstances change, he gets bored or the EMS becomes a problem.
It will not remain just sex if you continue, in most cases the A will begin to effect how you are treating your husband even it you are not totaly aware of it,become distant ETC...
You should consider if it is worth the risks to continue, the longer it goes the harder it will be to end, the rougher it gets for a lot of women.
The decisions you make now may last you a life time.
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How could I not love your name?! LOL
It's definitely possible to feel in love in these situations -- for the man and the woman. However, whether or not it is "real" is an entirely different question/debate. Be careful, hold on to your heart, and remember to try to keep things in perspective.
Charlotte
Anyways, I think women fall in love way more easily than men. They fall into lust, this is very true. But love ... that doesn't come so easily I think. So guard your heart, you will need to if you're already thinking this way!! JMHO.
Dusty
Hi horny and welcome,
I do believe it can be possible to love someone this way... but after 2 months??? while a 'normal' relationship this may be so... as you can have so much more openness and contact... but an EMA... I believe it's more like you are entering what I used to call my infatuation stage.
Sweet
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