Sex on MM's Anniversary

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Registered: 11-22-2007
Sex on MM's Anniversary
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Mon, 02-15-2010 - 3:32pm

I am so sad right now.

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Registered: 10-10-2008
Mon, 02-15-2010 - 5:40pm
IMAO: You are his lover. Accept that. The sex is good and the friendship is also so enjoy what is. That is all it will be. Beating yourself up won't do you or anyone any good.
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Registered: 07-24-2009
Mon, 02-15-2010 - 7:23pm

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Registered: 11-22-2007
Mon, 02-15-2010 - 7:37pm
Thank you.
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Mon, 02-15-2010 - 8:25pm

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Registered: 11-22-2007
Mon, 02-15-2010 - 8:35pm

Oh no, no, no.

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Registered: 10-03-2009
Mon, 02-15-2010 - 8:43pm

I've had sex with AP on my anniversary too (mostly due to scheduling and logistics, i didn't specifically pick that day to get back at anyone or to prove myself what an ass i could be) .. I didn't tell her that, wouldn't be fair to her, it's my burden to carry things like that.. if you knew what you now know, I doubt you'd be a part of that last fling.. and you're fully aware of where you are at, and where he is at.. even with being part of an affair, unless one is clinically a sex addict, i think there are boundaries not to be crossed.. he surely crossed one.. you are thinking the right way here and you shouldn't beat yourself up too much.. instead you should move on as you are doing.. if you feel it's necessary, you can try to get closure with him, i doubt you will get that, he will find a way to turn this whole thing around most likely.. i think the best thing to do is just to stop and leave it at that.. just that this is wrong is reason enough and delving any further sometimes ends up just defeating the purpose..


good luck. and i hope

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Registered: 08-27-2005
Tue, 02-16-2010 - 12:51am

go easy on yourself. i know you feel bad but just go easy. i would suggest that you distance yourself from him. just take time and ease into no contact, gradually and get busy with work and other relaxing activities such as friends. it is hard when you are involved with a mm and are friends with his wife. then that is the time when you start hearing everything he has done with her. i almost forgot. distancing yourself from him will also mean distancing yourself from his wife (your friend). she might wonder how she can't hear from you and if you are not interested in the friendship again.

but that is my suggestion, distance yourself from both of them. As a rule, if i notice that any of my friend's husbands/boyfriends like me, i IGNORE THEM.if they were to make a move, i would tell them that under no circumstances i am getting involved with them cause i am friends with their wife and i value her friendship. also, if i was to get involved with another mm or attached man, and his wife/girlfriend showed that she wanted to be friends with me, i wouldn't want that as i would be dating her husband/ boyfriend so i would avoid her cause when you are friends with their wife, that complicates things even more, and can cause breakup of the friendship with the wife.

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