My only advice to you is: don't do it. Women get much more easily attached to men than the other way around. I am just afraid that you will set yourself up for so much heartache :-( I know how much it sucks though when the H is not good in bed. I am married too and it's the same here. I did enter an A but I wish I never had. I didn't even get into an A because I wanted good hot sex; it just felt so good in the beginning to get that kind of attention from someone.
I suppose I need to answer to myself if I am prepared to spend the rest of my life feeling frustrated and unsatusfied and wonder what and how it could've been.
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Hi :-)
My only advice to you is: don't do it. Women get much more easily attached to men than the other way around. I am just afraid that you will set yourself up for so much heartache :-(
I know how much it sucks though when the H is not good in bed. I am married too and it's the same here. I did enter an A but I wish I never had. I didn't even get into an A because I wanted good hot sex; it just felt so good in the beginning to get that kind of attention from someone.
but I wish I had stayed away from him.
Hugs
htgo
10 years being married and now you are desiring sex so much to consider an affair?
Thanks htgo for your response.
I suppose I need to answer to myself if I am prepared to spend the rest of my life feeling frustrated and unsatusfied and wonder what and how it could've been.
Please do an advanced search on my iVillage name --- I WAS you seven months ago and how I wish I could take it back.
Hi lostmymind,
Can you please share what was the final straw for you that made you decide to take that final step?
LOL Goddess!
I have a few issues with my H that he is not willing to work on.
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