Sexy words AP said to u

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Sexy words AP said to u
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Sat, 06-12-2010 - 7:36am
I meant hottest words instead of sexy! We were having lunch in a restaurant. Out of the blue, she leans over and say, "I am all wet and ready for you!" Needless to say that we finished our lunch hurriedly!


Edited 6/12/2010 7:49 am ET by discreetboston

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Mon, 06-14-2010 - 12:31am

I agree: if she needs to hear it (and what woman doesn't from time to time?) and it's the truth, then tell her!


Funny, I used to be a size 8, too, and thought I was fat (I'm 5'7")!

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Mon, 06-14-2010 - 1:01am

"Personally, I think being sexy is more about an attitude than a look, per se."...

Yes anotherseyes, you nailed it!

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Mon, 06-14-2010 - 12:43pm
On the "Your so sexy" tip-- yes, I love when my ex-AP (as he's now my fiance') says this! But, ladies, don't forget -- men like to be told their "So Sexy" too!
BBC (Kim)
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Mon, 06-14-2010 - 12:50pm
You know, I've told AP that things he's said and done are sexy, but never actually called "him" sexy.....food for thought ;)

anotherseyes

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Mon, 06-14-2010 - 1:25pm
Try it! You'd be surprised at how many men have never just been told blatantly "You are SO sexy!" -- they may not know how to react the first time (just as many women don't either), so, if you don't really like their reaction, (some people haven't learned how to take such a blatant compliment yet), just take it with a grain of salt & reiterate what you said... Example: I said to AP (while he was getting dressed on morning) "Baby, you know what? (him "What?") I think you are SO **** SEXY!" & he responds, "Ummm, well, ok if you think so" (& I know he KNOWS he's sexy because woman hit on him all the time & he knows why!)-- Me: "Not only do "I" think so -- but, I also want to tell you how happy I am that you are "MY" HOT, SEXY man!!!
BBC (Kim)
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Mon, 06-14-2010 - 1:41pm
Thanks for the tip, bbc!

anotherseyes

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Mon, 06-14-2010 - 2:59pm
Yes BBC...now you are talking! We men like to hear that we are sexy/hot! I will also add that we like to hear/see that a woman wants/enjoy to be told that she is sexy/hot! In other words, we (me personally) like a woman who enjoy to be desired.
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Mon, 06-14-2010 - 5:03pm
"we like to hear/see that a woman wants/enjoy to be told that she is sexy/hot! In other words, we (me personally) like a woman who enjoy to be desired."
What I realized a long time ago is that one of the biggest mistakes most woman make is that they don't know how to really accept & enjoy a real compliment from their man! Example: A womans friend will say to her "Oh, I like your dress" & she will respond "Oh, thanks! I bought it @ blah, blah, blah..." but, her man says to her "Hey baby, I really like that dress on you, you look so sexy in it" & she SO downplays it like "Really, it's "just" a dress I bought on sale (or an old dress --whatever), and it would look better if I lost 5 lbs, blah, blah, blah, & then usually changes the subject. I've witnessed this type interaction many times. When my SO (significant other) says "Hey baby, I really like that dress on you, you look so sexy in it"-- I'll be like "Thanks baby, I know I do-- that's WHY I put it on-- JUST for YOU! And just so you know, if you think I did a good job with the dress, wait until you see what's underneath!(or possibly not!)"
BBC (Kim)
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Mon, 06-14-2010 - 10:16pm
LOL

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