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Sharing too much info
| Fri, 12-12-2003 - 12:24pm |
MM is for sure my best frined, I keep very little from him. But my best girl friend to me and MM both lives in another state. She was here a few months back. We spent alot of time together, she and I, she and MM and the three of us together. I think maybe she had a clue, that something more was going on with me and MM, but she never said a word. Last night we were talking, she said we are close right, you turst me right? Of couse I do I trust her very much. She said then I want to know the truth about you and MM. OMG, I really was at a loss, then she said nevermind, we'll talk just about it when you get out here. I'm planning a trip out there in January. I really wanted to tell her... But I said I'd never put anyone in the posission to have to lie, so for me that ment telling NO ONE. I really wouldnt have to worry about her telling anyone. But I've just tried so hard to keep this A hidden, and I know if just one person finds out, then there is a greater risk that it will be discovered.
I know some of you have frineds that know, do you feel like they judge you? Do you worry that they will spill on you?
I keep telling myself deny, deny, deny, but it would be nice to have some one to talk to.
dayz
I know some of you have frineds that know, do you feel like they judge you? Do you worry that they will spill on you?
I keep telling myself deny, deny, deny, but it would be nice to have some one to talk to.
dayz

if you feel you can trust her -- and make it clear that she is to tell no one, her H, BF, best friend wherever she is, etc. about what you two talk about -- then confide in her. only you can be the judge of the depth of that relationship and how far to go with her.
good luck,
gurl
Edited 2/18/2004 1:06:05 PM ET by gurlfriend50
I don't know if it's right or not, but I have basically told her that we ended the A and we're just friends, because we decided that the friendship was more important to us. Don't know if this helps, only my experience with telling. Good luck.
Thanks
dayz
gurl
Edited 2/18/2004 1:05:23 PM ET by gurlfriend50