Is she interested?
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| Mon, 04-05-2004 - 2:17am |
It started out about 8 months ago..we work on the same team. We just seemed to hit it off..I love talking and sharing..same as her. My wife doesn't like to visit..her hubby is typical workaholic male. I know she loves her family as do I...but..I just can't tell if she is interested in me..more than friends that is.
We have done coffee..gone to lunches..shared intimate details about our personal lives. I told her she was one of the most beautiful women I have ever known...she told me I make her blush. She talks of the future.."next summer I will take you to sushi..."..etc. "We need to keep doing coffee..it's so good to finally have somebody to talk with.
Part of me figures..what would a 45 year old woman want with a 34 year old guy? Her kids are in college..mine are still in preschool. It's just so odd. Some days she is very friendly, talkative..and others she is almost distant. I don't want to make a move. The most we have ever done physically is a friendly hug..both side and frontal. She tells me things such as, "I always wear a thong with jeans"....or."I initiated 3 times last week.."
Perhaps she just likes the attention I give her..it almost feels like a game. I don't believe she has ever cheated...nor have I. What am I to do? We are both teachers and are going on a school trip together for about a week next month. Perhaps she will seduce me. I am so bad..but my heart just loves the attention she gives me.
Am I crazy? Perhaps she gets excited at my attention..then worries about where it will lead? How do I know if she really wants me..?

I have to warn you though just like everybody else here warned me at one time - an affair is not an easy road to travel. Even though there will be moments that will make you blissfully happy there will be just as many if not more moments of pain and anguish. I suggest you think long and hard before starting anything with this woman if you are not fully prepared to handle it.
Ours started off as an office friendship. When the opportunity was
there he told me he had been attracted to me since he met me.
I couldn't believe it, we are both happily married, but as he later said
maybe something is missing in our marraiges. Our affair lasted 5 mths, has been over for 2 mnths, but lateley I have seen the spark back in his eyes.
I asked him today if it was just me, or do I see something in his eyes, he said yes!!!!
Who knows, maybe we will start up again.
But Yes, I think she is interested!!!!!