She requested the restraining order
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She requested the restraining order
| Tue, 04-27-2004 - 11:25am |
Well, the b!tch did it. She served him with paternity (child support) papers on Thursday. In the papers she was able to make a "request". Her request was to have the judge place a restraining order against me for herself and her kids. B/f had to file and serve her with "response" papers where he was able to make a request. He asked that they did not grant her request for the restraining order because I am not a threat to anyone...especially the children! Hello, when we were all friends I used to babysit them for crying out loud. She only did this to try and keep us apart. Ugh. Also, she claimed in her court papers that she was a victim of domestic violence which is a huge lie AND she filed a police report saying I attacked HER when she was the one who attacked ME! Can you believe this woman?! Do I have any chance to get the judge to see through this? Is there anything I can do? I was going to have people I have babysat for (since this is involving my being a threat to her children...hello, I am a mom of 3) write me letters of character. Do you think that would be enough? Oh, and to make it worse she is requesting child support for BOTH kids when the oldest isn't even his! But, he's on the birth certificate because he thought she was his when she was born. AND, he's been giving her cash (stupid) since he left and now she wants back child support! She is so crazy! Sorry, just needed to vent.

I really don't know how the law works in your state so I don't know what you'll need to do to prove you are not a threat to the kids.
~Flirty~
she will lose big time -
basically you have a court date...
I won't get into what I know but at this date IF the judge asks this woman if there
was domestic abuse and she replies NO -
then her credibility has just been shot out the window by a cannon -
As far as child support - if his name is on the birth certificate and
he is the only father this child has known then chances are he's stuck
paying the child support
I think you should stay as far out of this as you possibly can -
out of the court room especially - let your B/F deal with this and just be supportive
Dragging a bunch of innocent people into the courts will only make it a he said she said match - let the courts make the decisions men are pretty much screwed in this world as far as family rights so unless he gets a good attorney he's pretty much at the mercy of the court
It seems like no one is looking out for the children in all of this and
that is what is truely tragic
K