She's trying to tear us apart =(
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She's trying to tear us apart =(
| Wed, 04-14-2004 - 6:54pm |
I am so upset. Just when things are going so great between us his ex has to jump in and try to mess things up. Jealousy is an ugly thing. She has decided that because he won't stop seeing me (they are not even together anymore) that she will get a restraining order on me for their kids. She said this before and we thought she was just blowing smoke up our rear ends. Now I found out she is serious and that I will be served with a restraining order. The most ironic thing is that SHE attacked ME twice...and once in front of her children! She is absolutely insane! I don't know what to do. I am so upset about this because in my state (I already called the court) the restraining orders are good for a year. We have spent every waking moment together since we left our R's and we have been so happy. I have been there when his kids were there and they adore me. I knew them beforehand. But I have to have rights. I know that I have 10 days to contest the order. The only problem is that when my sister found out she and her sister attacked me she called and left a threatening voice mail on their phone and she is bringing it to court. But I didn't leave the message. I am so torn up about this. I wouldn't be able to stand it if she were able to keep us apart like that. My only saving grace would be either A) she can't put an order on me because our kids are in the same class and I have to be able to pick my daughter up from school
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B) I have two witnesses (plus my b/f) who will go to court and testify that SHE is the one who attacked me, she is the one who called me, and she is doing this purely out of jealousy.
Hopefully that will be enough to squash this nonsense. I know all of the horrible things she will say about me in court to try to get the order. I know she will lie because that is all she does. Hopefully the judge will see through it...although most people can't. I just hope that the order doesn't stick or she just may succeed in tearing us apart.
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B) I have two witnesses (plus my b/f) who will go to court and testify that SHE is the one who attacked me, she is the one who called me, and she is doing this purely out of jealousy.
Hopefully that will be enough to squash this nonsense. I know all of the horrible things she will say about me in court to try to get the order. I know she will lie because that is all she does. Hopefully the judge will see through it...although most people can't. I just hope that the order doesn't stick or she just may succeed in tearing us apart.
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| Wed, 04-14-2004 - 7:15pm |
I went through a nasty divorce, my ExH's new girlfriend, had stabed HERSELF, punched a wall and threw furniture in the house while my 3 year old daughter was there, I tried to get a restraining order, there were no police records, no hospital reports, ALL hear say of what they thought was from a jealous ex wife (me) (I kicked him out) all I got was if my ex leaves he can not leave my daughter with his chick with out my permission! I think you will be fine!!
