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In Shock
| Tue, 06-30-2009 - 2:33am |
I havent posted in a while because things have been a lil odd with my AP. He is an old and dear friend of mine that i have been in love with since I was 16. We have been back in contact for about 18 months or so now. Things became sticky in about Feb.

Well, what do you want to do? Do you want to "keep him"? Or, would you prefer to just stay friends? If it's the latter, then that may not be possible with him - are you prepared to cut all ties if that's so?
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"I was starting to feel like maybe I could geta handle on this and become his friend again. Without actually seeing him I wasnt as wrapped up as I had been. Or at least i could tell mysef I wasnt.
You have been in love with him since you were 16 ( how much are you now?).Have you been seeing him everyday since then?I guess not.But your feelings didnt die.Then how does not actually seeing him now would change things?You are right,you are fooling yourself by believing so.
Did you ask him what exactly he meant by that statement?If he is indicating about moving out of house ( is he M? are you M or S),it could be that he is taking steps to move out and needs a place.My MM and I got caught,his W threw him out.I was excited as he moved in with me but lots of drama followed and he is back with W but working again on D.
When things get rocky,i tell myself all the good things my AP has to offer me and the sweet moments we share.If bad outweighs the good,its not that it will remain the same forever.Feelings and emotions change every day if you let them.
I would very much like to keep him. He is M. I am S.
Its been 14 years now.