Shoot! I'm getting emotionally involved.
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Shoot! I'm getting emotionally involved.
| Fri, 01-02-2004 - 9:19pm |
And worse --> I don't think he is. This A was to be a "little fun", and I'm really finding myself quite enamored w/ my MM. I'm married, too, and he knows my marriage is not in good shape, and he claims to be quite content at home.
It's just frustrating. Has this happened to any of you? Is it more of a "girl" thing to get emotionally attached, whereas men can just enjoy the perks of the A and not get feelings involved?
Now, I just need to keep my trap shut and probably step back a bit. For example, what was going to be a lovely evening next week has just been messed up by my dh's schedule, and I was absolutely deflated to learn we couldn't hook up that night. He was very mellow about it. MEN!!
I guess, I'm feeling like my guy is just such a tough read when it comes to where he stands in this whole relationship...and I really don't want to bring up the discussion. (Yet I'm dying to know!!) **sigh**
Thanks for reading, yall!
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I've noticed one thing though...if you ignore them ( MM )
they give you a little more attn....
Do it...and good luck...
Its great..affairs...in the beginning...but it hurts when
one starts to fall in luv...and the other doesnt.
Good luck...and be careful.
p.s. TOW2002 ..means( the other woman since 2002)
So I know where ur coming from.
That's probably why I have more feelings towards him than I think he has towards me.
Although if I was in a happy M, I would never have sought out MM to begin with.
Now I have him, it helps to fill a need I have. Take care and you are not alone,
Dusty
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What is going on this time is the emotional part has come in first and I am desperately trying to keep the physical out of it. This particular person is an ex-boyfriend, so that may prove to be a problem. I really do not want to start having affairs again. My husband is certainly satisfying me sexually, unlike my previous husband. I guess something is lacking emotionally, though. Can't win for losing!
I guess I always knew I was a little different in my attitudes than other women. Sex and love to me are two different things. They can go hand in hand, but sometimes they don't. I am also sure there are men out there that think more like the typical woman, too. My husband said he had never dated more than one person at the time and wanted us to be exclusive from the beginning. I thought he was nuts!
All I can say to you is just try to go with the flow. You said neither of you meant to leave your spouses, so try to accept it for what it is. Why do you have to "read" him? Why not just enjoy being with him?
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