I am kinda in the same situation. My MM tells me to be patient, and it will happen. However, it is the waiting that is the hardest part. I guess it depends on how true you really think his feelings are. My MM has told me things that noone else ever has about his feelings for me. He tells me he loves me a million times a day. He spends all of his free time with me, and whenever I need him, he is there. It sounds like your MM does some of these same things. I guess it depends on what you are willing to sacrifice. I sometimes tell myself it would be a lot easier to leave if I didn't believe. Foolishly, I follow my heart. Should you believe? I guess that is really up to you, noone can tell you what the best thing to do is. Just my 2 cents.
do you feel like you can trust what MM says? is your gut telling you to believe him??
seems like he's making lots of effort to be with you and say the right things, but you have to not nag him into doing something about his M. he has to want to leave for his own happiness, not yours. MM will probably resent you eventually if you force him into a decision he's not ready to make. since you've only been separated for a couple of months, try to relax and enjoy this additional time you are spending with MM and get to really know each other, like dating. if 3-4 months go by and MM is not making any further effort to make a future with you, you'll have to get off the fence and make your own decision whether to continue the R as is.
good luck and be strong. make yourself happy, any way you have to.
do you feel like you can trust what MM says? is your gut telling you to believe him??
seems like he's making lots of effort to be with you and say the right things, but you have to not nag him into doing something about his M. he has to want to leave for his own happiness, not yours. MM will probably resent you eventually if you force him into a decision he's not ready to make. since you've only been separated for a couple of months, try to relax and enjoy this additional time you are spending with MM and get to really know each other, like dating. if 3-4 months go by and MM is not making any further effort to make a future with you, you'll have to get off the fence and make your own decision whether to continue the R as is.
good luck and be strong. make yourself happy, any way you have to.