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Should I believe him
| Tue, 09-16-2003 - 4:32pm |
Ok I have not posted for awhile, but the last time I posted I said my ex H and I were trying to fix our relationship, 3 years ago, I cheated on him and even after cheating he wanted to fix the R but I was so messed up I treated him so badly and of course after waiting and begging he moved on, well after 2 years of being apart, after a divorce, after alot of counsling on my part I have realized how wrong I was I actually realized that a while ago, but my X has been in a relationship where he has become very financially dependant on this women, she is much older and wealthy, things are very bad between them, I am not only saying that cause HE told me that I know from when my daughter comes home from weekend visits and from friends, so I know they are not happy, the thing is, he said he needs to see that I really want this, he is so afraid of being hurt again, he needs to see my dedication to the marriage counslor, we see him together once a week and we also see him on our own. YES he is seeing a marriage counslor with me while he is living with another women. He actually told me that until he moves out we can not have any sexual relationship, but I want to and we have been, anyways he told me he would move out before the holidays 11/15 this year and get his own place he just needs a little time, I agreed to this, do you think he is serious or just dragging it out? Should I give him this time does it seem fair after what I did, we will continue the counsling weekely.....I am so afraid of putting my heart in this and him not leaving her.
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| Tue, 09-16-2003 - 9:19pm |
Unfortunately, if you are here, and you have to ask, then I think you are already having your doubts, and if that is the case, then the most important thing is missing from the relationship: trust.
