Should I believe him or keep running?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-01-2005
Should I believe him or keep running?
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Wed, 11-05-2008 - 12:30pm

I tried to end it with the MM this morning.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2008
Wed, 11-05-2008 - 12:52pm
If you were with him for 3 years, maybe you could wait out a little longer to see if he really has plans for you? Otherwise you probably will never know if you did the right thing...
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2008
Wed, 11-05-2008 - 3:32pm

Sorry Vivaciousgirl - but I'm going to disagree with you on this one.


Maximusbay - I'm assuming by your post that you are single?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2008
Wed, 11-05-2008 - 7:43pm

Macimusbay,


I know exactly how you feel.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-28-2008
Wed, 11-05-2008 - 11:50pm

Run like the wind, Bullseye!

Or, if you can appreciate the relationship as being what it is withoug having to cook his meals, do his laundry and pick up after him everyday, then hang in there...;)







iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2008
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 9:55am
Bella, you post almost scared me. I am 35, separated and in A with MM...I plan to spend in it 2 more months (it will be 6 months of us together), and then if he is still undecided whether to leave his home or not, I plan to move on with my life. I am horrified I will be sitting there and waiting and waiting and waiting until I am 40 years old..or more..that's why I want to break it off before years are invested. There are plenty of men out there, however hurt I would be to leave the man I truly love, my hurt won't last years, eventually I will get over him and will meet someone who will be with me 24/7 and will make me his #1 priority.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2000
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 6:11pm

So, he's been chasing you for 3 years, and now, when you tell him you don't want to be involved, he all of a sudden has plans for you and is going to change things.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2008
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 6:32pm

Vivacious,


I was 35 when I started out.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-06-2008
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 8:49pm

Hi M,


You indicated that you have been friends with AP for three years.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2008
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 9:16pm
Bella, I feel I have no choice but to end it, if he won't do anything about it. I see from other's posts that other MM at least promise their AP (sincerely or not) to leave...my AP just says "I don't know". There is not much to work with for me, if he even does not know whether he will leave or not EVER.
I will have to end it, because I am too unhappy. I have life, friends, good job, financial security, nice house, I am attractive and have everything going for me. If our R would've been adding something real or significant to my life, I would not do anything about it. But it's not. I am lonely and unhappy, I want to have normal relationship with the man. He says he loves me and he acts like he truly does, but who knows how much it means to him after all...
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-01-2005
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 12:41pm

Z


Thank you (and everyone else too).

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