Should I contact him?
Find a Conversation
Should I contact him?
| Sun, 11-02-2003 - 11:03am |
Last Thursday, MM's wife found out about us. We have been together for about a year. She is still deciding whether or not to kick him out of the house, but he is begging her to stay this weekend because he had plans with his boys (7 and 3). He called me Thursday, Friday, and yesterday, but said since she has all his passwords to phone and computer now, we can't speak. We used to have contact several times a day. How he left it with me is "I'll talk to you sometime next week". I was just online, and he was online, so I just IM'd him syaing "just wanted to say hi-bye", and he replied, "bye". This is so terrible and this no contact is driving me crazy. He is really distancing him himself.
We work together, and I know he has to work night shifts this week. Should I call him at work tonight? I really just want to hear his voice and see how he is doing. What should I do?

Nothing freaks me out more than the no-call routine, and I too would be tempted
to call him but considering the circumstances maybe giving some "space" is
not such a bad idea--- with the wife just finding out and him worrying that
he may not see the kids, I'd keep to myself for a while. I know it must suck the
uncertainty and everything but keep in my mind he DOES know how to reach you.
cl-liberalgirl
callmeliberal@hotmail.com