Green.....there seem to be many parallels in our lives. Very interesting. Your story sounds similar to mine. Well, what it was about 3 years ago. Now it's different.
I also am 31, left H for a while, was in love with a man that I thought was the most perfect and could not be topped.....ended up going back to H after 7 months of separation. More details later if you want them.
Here is a bit of advice I can attempt to offer you. It's hard to compare the H with the AP. You have had 7 years to get to know all of H's very bad habits, traits, negatives.....You have not had that experience with AP. I rarely say "that'll never work" because I really have no clue. Your case could be the exceptional one.
Anyhow, if you would like to e-mail me I can share my experience and show you were I ended up after that experience that is much like yours.
Green.....there seem to be many parallels in our lives. Very interesting. Your story sounds similar to mine. Well, what it was about 3 years ago. Now it's different.
I also am 31, left H for a while, was in love with a man that I thought was the most perfect and could not be topped.....ended up going back to H after 7 months of separation. More details later if you want them.
Here is a bit of advice I can attempt to offer you. It's hard to compare the H with the AP. You have had 7 years to get to know all of H's very bad habits, traits, negatives.....You have not had that experience with AP. I rarely say "that'll never work" because I really have no clue. Your case could be the exceptional one.
Anyhow, if you would like to e-mail me I can share my experience and show you were I ended up after that experience that is much like yours.
Take care,
J
My advice would be to not allow feelings of guilt brought on by your H to be a deciding factor in trying to make your M work.