should i go home?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-06-2008
should i go home?
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Sun, 10-12-2008 - 8:52pm

married 7 years, no kids.

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Registered: 04-03-2007
Sun, 10-12-2008 - 10:08pm

Green.....there seem to be many parallels in our lives. Very interesting. Your story sounds similar to mine. Well, what it was about 3 years ago. Now it's different.

I also am 31, left H for a while, was in love with a man that I thought was the most perfect and could not be topped.....ended up going back to H after 7 months of separation. More details later if you want them.

Here is a bit of advice I can attempt to offer you. It's hard to compare the H with the AP. You have had 7 years to get to know all of H's very bad habits, traits, negatives.....You have not had that experience with AP. I rarely say "that'll never work" because I really have no clue. Your case could be the exceptional one.

Anyhow, if you would like to e-mail me I can share my experience and show you were I ended up after that experience that is much like yours.

Take care,
J

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Registered: 07-29-2008
Mon, 10-13-2008 - 11:01am

My advice would be to not allow feelings of guilt brought on by your H to be a deciding factor in trying to make your M work.