should i or shouldn't I...need advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2004
should i or shouldn't I...need advice
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Tue, 08-26-2008 - 8:58am

Thank god for this board...I have felt so alone.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-01-2007
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 10:17am

First of all you are a woman so there will be "an emotional nightmare" you all ready have feelings.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-05-2008
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 10:46am

"...I won't be able to give it up and it will turn into an emotional nightmare..."


Unfortunately, that is what usually happens and you end up on the emotional rollercoaster.

Wish4more2

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2004
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 11:42am
thank you...it helps to have others to share this with.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2004
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 5:08pm

No advice but I just wanted to say I REALLY relate to

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2008
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 6:48pm

Gosh I know how you feel, been with partner for 20 years, married for two, he is my best friend ever in the world, but my 'other person' whom i have also known for 20 years n who i had a brief relationship with for a year many moons ago I have recently been back in touch with n the chemistry is mad! we need to consume each other! I can't live without him yet at the same time canh't live with him as I can't bear what |I'm doing to my husband. the new man is hot n cold n doesn't give me half of what I need, my husband, even now gives me more then new m,an ever will, yet I still don't feel half the feeleings I do for H that I do for new man. I wish I didn't feel this way about new man but I know he will always be the love of my life. Yet I know deep down I'm better off with my H.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2004
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 8:28pm
I know.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 10:05pm

Please don't go for it.


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 10:28pm

To the OP - and anyone else who hasn't started down the road to A-land yet - please -

lightning in my heart

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2004
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 7:45am
Thank you for your insight.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2008
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 8:01am

As exciting as