Should I send HIM flowers on V-Day?

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Registered: 12-28-2003
Should I send HIM flowers on V-Day?
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Sat, 01-10-2004 - 10:42pm
I am thinking of sending roses to my man at work on Valentine's day. Too risky? Of course, they would be anonymous. Or maybe our nicknames. His co-workers are suspicious of our "friendship," so I don't know if this would be too bold.

Opinions?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-03-2004
Sat, 01-10-2004 - 10:54pm
Hey that sounds like a great idea. Why not send them to his house at the same time, and on that one, sign your name. If possible, spray your perfume and kiss the card too. Hey, you could always go to a sex toy shop and find him one of those Condom Bouquet's and some edible underwear too. But please, make sure to sign your name!!
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Registered: 10-15-2003
Sun, 01-11-2004 - 11:40am
Yes, this is way too risky! Not just for your reputations in the work place, but also for your heart and emotions. In all likelihood he won't be sending you roses, so how is that going to make you feel? Don't even think about doing this. You have to remember, this is not, and won't ever be, a dating relationship.

Plus, men really do not like getting flowers. They think it's 'sucky' and embarrasses them no end.