Shouldn't we be happy our MM are home?!

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Registered: 08-23-2003
Shouldn't we be happy our MM are home?!
Thu, 10-16-2003 - 9:09pm
Shouldn't we(OW)be happy that our MM are home with there wives? That they are at home with the kids, that they are home period. At least, we know where they are. Seriously!

I mean. If he were single he could still be cheating either way with many different women. I mean, at least, he being married. He's home. Instead of out and about.

I know it's still not a comfort because bottom line he is still there with her and not here with me. I'm just trying to rationalionlize it a bit. Maybe I'm reaching. Maybe I'm not.

We talk to & email each other daily. I know where he's at. I know what he did with the family and what he didn't do. The majority is spent at work and with the kids and I know when he's not there with them. He's emailing or talking to me.