show your shadows, groundhogs :)

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Registered: 10-03-2009
show your shadows, groundhogs :)
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Mon, 02-04-2013 - 12:07pm

Well, let's see how many of "us" is left, maybe a few, maybe not.

All is well in my world. I'm well on my way to "man-whore"dom, with one full time AP and one part-time'ish AP. There are reasons for both, naturally, but it almost seems to work.

How's everyone else doing?

I wonder if Lanmann is still around.Us guys need to stick together, you know.

I was going to bump some posts from the recent past, there are some really good ones, but I felt it would be disrespectful to the OP's, so I left that one alone.

So.. will the MAS groundhogs show their shadows? Or did all the groundhogs go off w/ their squirrel buddies? :)

Let the fun and games begin!

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Registered: 12-18-2008
Tue, 02-05-2013 - 7:52am

Nice to see this board has a pulse. I'm doing alright. I've been over at doccool but looks like that one is going away. I really wish MAS would come back. :( Anyway yes, I am still with my 2 AP, Mr Local and Mr Out of Town. I ave been feeling restless. It's been a long time with those two. Guess I shouldn't complain, they are safe and fun in their own way.

-jana

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Registered: 04-27-2009
Tue, 02-05-2013 - 12:09pm

Still here and still in the LDA. AP and I managed to see each other the week before Christmas and a few day's before my birthday last month. No drama just both of us wishing we could spend more time together...he mentioned going away together for a couple of days in the spring. There's a slim chance I may get to see him this month...I have my fingers crossed Wink .

katuk
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Registered: 09-10-2010
Fri, 02-08-2013 - 8:31am
I'm here (but almost never ;)) , I am curious to hear how everyone else is doing... Janejosie, Sireanita, Tangledmess and all the others... It's good to see at least some familiar faces! Some people went to another site after doccool (creep) went down :) xx
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Registered: 10-03-2009
Fri, 02-08-2013 - 5:36pm

Ah, good to see you are alive, itstime!!!

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Registered: 09-12-2005
Sun, 02-10-2013 - 5:27pm

Hi Itstime,

thanks for remembering me. I rarely connect here, kind of lost hope that it will ever get back to how it was. Otherwise, I'm doing great. I finally found a way to enjoy myself and not live for the moment when the AP leaves the W and it's been great. He's more in love than ever LOL. She's apparently slow to adapt, but he says that she's getting there. And we're still in as much contact, see each other every day of the week, he's there for me when I need it, etc. 

I'm getting closer to my personal deadline and while it's a bit scary, I know that I'll be fine. :)

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Registered: 09-21-2007
Mon, 02-11-2013 - 1:39pm

I'm here, but in lurkdom recently.  So conflicted, but still with AP.  Technically now at the 6 year mark, but he again showed his true colors recently, so the reason for being conflicted.  Hard to be "just sex" when I know my feelings are there and hard to conceal.  Harder when I know I am the only one with them.

 

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Mon, 02-11-2013 - 4:14pm
Hey MAS, I'm still with AP and I really miss you all and reading what stages you are in and the updates. I hope some come out and keep us posted. Nevereasy...you naughty, naughty guy ; )

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 10-03-2009
Tue, 02-12-2013 - 11:43am

So, Lost, how do you then go about accepting the status quo and enjoying the A on essentially his terms. After six years, you are not going anywhere, neither is he. So, why not try letting him go in your heart and just enjoy the intimacy and the friendship?

I'm a guy, so maybe it's easier for me to do this. That's what I now have w/ my long term AP, it was either that or lose her completely. I found out that after a while, once you realize, it's not so bad to not hurt all the time, I kinda enjoy the place where I got myself to now.

Btw, what did he pull off last time?

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Registered: 10-03-2009
Tue, 02-12-2013 - 11:48am

Hi Purple,
Good to hear from you. So, what's your update? Or did I miss it?

OK, guilty as charged! But it's not like I am sleeping w/ three women (counting W there too) every week or something (there is a thought!).. I am still sleeping w/ just one woman; the other two are blue moon encounters. I get a pass for that, right? Right? ;)

Talking about that, where is Blueroses? Lanmann? Tiramisu? Cowgirl? I especially want to know how Cowgirl and her man are coming along.

So, all seems to be functional again with the board, so far. Let's go groundhogs and squirrels. Time's a wasting!!!

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