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| Tue, 12-02-2003 - 10:14am |
MM and I have been in this A for about 3 years, and I have told NO one (other than here). He has one frined the works with that knows, I believe he has covered for him a few times.
But I would not tell anyone, we live in a small town and news like that travles as fast as cell phones ring. Anyway, firday night, I had a family party to attend, I knew H would not go, so I planned to slip away to meet MM, just for a bit. As I was slipping out the door my mom stops me and asks me where I'm going, I give her my excues, then she says tell (incert MM name here) I said hello! I could have died, but I hoped she didnt notice. So I'm off to meet MM, we have a wonderful 20 mins!! OMG I love that man!!
I slip back into the party unmissed,(except by mom). I sit down across from mom and she says you are going to get cought. I asked her was she hoping I would? She said I hope you leave before you do.
So what do you think mom just knows me, or am I giving off signals that I dont realize? Mom and I talk alot and she knows I'm not happy with H, but I really thought I was keeping this under wraps?
Any one else have frineds or family that supect? How do you deal with it?
dayz
But I would not tell anyone, we live in a small town and news like that travles as fast as cell phones ring. Anyway, firday night, I had a family party to attend, I knew H would not go, so I planned to slip away to meet MM, just for a bit. As I was slipping out the door my mom stops me and asks me where I'm going, I give her my excues, then she says tell (incert MM name here) I said hello! I could have died, but I hoped she didnt notice. So I'm off to meet MM, we have a wonderful 20 mins!! OMG I love that man!!
I slip back into the party unmissed,(except by mom). I sit down across from mom and she says you are going to get cought. I asked her was she hoping I would? She said I hope you leave before you do.
So what do you think mom just knows me, or am I giving off signals that I dont realize? Mom and I talk alot and she knows I'm not happy with H, but I really thought I was keeping this under wraps?
Any one else have frineds or family that supect? How do you deal with it?
dayz

My mother knows all about my marital problems as well. I think your mother might just know you too well -- let me explain...Your post hit home with me because a few months ago I was having lunch with my mother and MM's name came up (he is someone I used to work closely with). I too have told no one about my relationship with him, and I have also made sure to keep everything at home on an even keel. Anyway, his name came up, and the conversation was casual (at least I thought). Out of nowhere my Mother asked me if something was going on. It completely caught me off guard and I blushed. I said “NO!”, but my Mom commented and asked why I was blushing. I told her I liked him and found him attractive, but that was all; we didn’t even work together anymore, etc. Since then I have noticed her kind of “watching” me -- me behavior, etc; I think she might have an idea.
After this conversation, I wracked my brains wondering if I was acting suspicious (just like you)…but I really don’t think I am -- and IF I am, I am putting out signals that only a MOTHER can pick up on. I guess she just knows me -- and it sounds like your Mom knows you too!!!
Just be careful and more aware of your actions now. Are you going to talk to your Mom about this more? I have thought of telling my Mother; I know she would never judge me (or tell H), but I would be afraid that she would tell my father!!!
Hope this helps…I’m curious as to what other people will have to say too.
Charlotte
Kitty
My mother and I are very close, and I think sometimes she just picks up on little things that others might not notice. I did think about talking to my mom about MM. I wouldnt have to worry about her tell H or anyone for that matter, But like you if my Dad were to find out, oh man that would not be good. And I dont want to put her in the palce to have to lie to dad.
Mom knows my MM, and his kids, (love those small towns).
Mom would like to see me happy, not matter who makes me happy.
But for now I'm keeping this between MM and you here on the board.
Thanks,
dayz
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