The Side I didn't Know
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The Side I didn't Know
| Wed, 06-10-2009 - 7:50am |
So, i went to the camp out last weekend, and AP was there, with his wife. She actually talked to me! I couldn't believe it! Last i knew, by the way AP talked, she hated me. I asked AP if her talking to me meant she didn't hate me anymore, and he told me to ask her myself...wtf! What a cop out answer. At dinner, he admitted to drinking hard liquor all day long, which was a surprise for me to hear. I never knew him to drink like that, in all the years i've known him. My guard is up, now. I dont know what to think. And a good friend to both of us told me he was drinking all weekend to deal with having to be with his wife. Well, if thats how he's going to deal with his wife, i am wondering what else i dont know about him. And then i got to thinking, probably the only reason his wife talked to me is cuz she was tipsy or something. Why else would she talk to me? She has no reason to. She hasn't talked to me in almost two years. And to hear her put on that phony voice and pretend she is interested in my life, made me dislike her even more. And to sit there and watch and listen to her tell Ap what he can or cannot eat at dinner, is to me, some form of control For God's sakes, he's 44 y.o! And also she announced to the group how he talked about my cooking all week and how he couldn't wait to eat some. Everyone else there was cheating on their diets cuz it was a weekend of fun and relaxation. It only comes once a year, this camp out. But i did notice he didn't listen to her about the food issue and ate whatever he felt like it. Other than dinner, most of the time i ignored the two of them and went about my business of having fun with my friends. It was more important for me to have fun and relax than to think about AP and his wife. And seeing the two of them together went down exactly how i imagined.
But i didn't think about alcohol being a part of it, and as i am not a drinker at all, i dont know what to think about his drinking. All I know is, it really bothers me he did that.
But i didn't think about alcohol being a part of it, and as i am not a drinker at all, i dont know what to think about his drinking. All I know is, it really bothers me he did that.

Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.
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Hi emscemily,
From my perspective, who wouldn't drink if they were stuck at an event like this with both their W and their AP?!