Sigh... diemlma continues

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Tue, 03-10-2009 - 12:39pm
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Edited 3/19/2009 5:31 pm ET by goblinqueen79
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Tue, 03-10-2009 - 1:14pm

>>>"AP never told me what he told her about me... she's bound to ask how i know him..."<<<

I don't think he told her you're his 'Affair Partner". So don't be dumb and spill all that stuff out. Saying he's a friend I think should suffice. Seems like you're looking for reasons to out your A. Not a good idea.

>>>"The truth is obviously completely out... "<<<

That's just your presumptions. Whatever they know, they know. But it shouldn't come from you! Besides, people are aware that sometimes it's "who" you know rather than "what" you know in landing a job. I would still stick to the story of being just a friend.

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Tue, 03-10-2009 - 1:29pm
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Edited 3/19/2009 5:31 pm ET by goblinqueen79
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Tue, 03-10-2009 - 1:45pm

Look, people get caught because they tend to elaborate on lies. If you met him through FB then why not just say he was an old friend you found again on FB. Give her a bit of the truth without elaborating is all I'm saying.

But we know you'll do what you want. I don't see the big deal that you're making this out to be. I also don't get why you can't just text your AP and ask him all this stuff so you'll know for sure instead of creating all this drama in your head.

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Tue, 03-10-2009 - 2:09pm
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Edited 3/19/2009 5:30 pm ET by goblinqueen79
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Wed, 03-11-2009 - 11:07am

I understand what you are saying..You don't want to say something contrary to what your AP told this person..That is tough since you didn't get to discuss it...


I sort of went through a similar situation with a job I had a few years ago..I met a guy chatting online that was a about an hour away from my home. I was looking to start a career in another field then what I had been working in and they had an opening at his work place.

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Wed, 03-11-2009 - 12:30pm
I think it's pretty safe to say that he didn't tell them he met you on an "intimate friends" site. I'm with G2, I don't see the big deal. I've never had an interviewer want to know details on how I know someone. Tell them you met through friends, no one